The swinging lifestyle is a hot & sexy place that we all enjoy. If you are newer to the lifestyle, your vanilla wardrobe might not be up to the sexiness level that is usually displayed at swinger parties and clubs. Unfortunately since non-monogamy is still a bit taboo, there isn’t a swinger clothing store at your local mall. So how the heck is someone supposed to build up their swinger clothes and wardrobe options? Believe it or not, you actually have many shopping options to help you buy just the right outfits to make you feel & look your best.
Our personal favorite and the first site we shop at. This is a really good spot for party dresses, club dresses and just about any type of sexy dress you can imagine. They carry a wide selection of shoes to match just about any swinger outfit. Ami also carries a wide selection of sexy swinger costumes so you can match any swinger party theme. They have sexy intimate lingerie so you can keep looking sexy after you take your dress off. Ami has sexy stuff in petite & plus sizes. It has sexy men’s costumes but doesn’t carry regular men’s clothes. Usually has the best prices from the sites we check so you can buy a few different options without breaking the bank.
Reliable store of sexy & trendy outfits at good prices. Wide selection of sexy dresses & separates for your shopping pleasure. They carry club dresses, bandage dresses, club outfits and just about anything a swinger would want. They have a wide selection of shoes and boots to match your smoking hot outfit. Of course, Pink Basis carries a wide selection of sexy costumes so you can match your swinger club theme. They carry intimates and swimsuits as well as sexy stuff in petite & plus sizes. Also has costumes for men but no regular men’s clothes. Prices are good but usually not as good as Ami Clubwear.
Like the other sites, it has sexy & hot stuff but we have found much better deals elsewhere so this is not currently our favorite. Dresses, swimsuits, lingerie, costumes & shoes are available. Plus sizes tend to cost a bit more. No men’s options. They tend to increase their costume selection for Halloween.
Remixing Your Wardrobe
There is a good chance you might not even have to go shopping if you look at your current wardrobe from a different perspective. Don’t think of your clothes as being limited to certain situations. You can mix & match to create hot new looks that would be good to wear for swinging events. Take your sexy jeans and combine them with a silk lingerie top to create a hot new look that you don’t need to buy. You probably have a hundred great pieces you bought for vanilla events or private bedroom fun, but why not wear them to swinger events? A sexy bra under a blazer pairs quite nicely with skinny jeans and heels. Or try a silky camisole under that same tailored office blazer. A slightly over-sized button down shirt serves as a great sexy secretary look when you add thigh highs, a belt, and trendy eyeglasses. You can also mix things up with your shoes. Take those sexy stilettos & don’t be afraid of matching them up with your shortest shorts. Throw out your old vanilla wardrobe rules & look at your wardrobe with a liberated swinger viewpoint as you go & shop your own closet.
Ladies of the Lifestyle Wardrobe Swap
Swingers can really enjoy shopping for new sexy outfits. Sometimes the outfits that we buy don’t fit us the right way, looked different in the store, or were a great match for a party theme that we no longer need. For those reasons and many others, lifestyle ladies can find themselves with a pile of perfectly good sexy clothes that are no longer a good match for them. Since the lifestyle is a friendly community, some ladies like to share the love with their swinging friends and clear up some room in their own closets by organizing a swinger wardrobe swap. These aren’t really official swinger events. They are more like friendly get togethers where each lady brings the things she no longer uses & lets her swinger friends see if it might work for them. If this sounds like a fun idea, you can ask your swinger club if they would be willing to host it or you could host your own afternoon tea/swap party at your house or hotel room.
Local Stripper Stores/Sex Stores
Lifestyle ladies, you are as sexy as any stripper so why not take advantage of the sexy outfits and costumes being marketed to strippers and go shop locally? You can search Google to find your local sex store or stripper costume store. These places will carry super hot outfits for ladies (sorry men, most of these places don’t carry many, if any, options for you). This is a really good option for sexy shoes & boots since you can try them on.