You are probably very excited now and might have even booked your room. Let’s talk about your wardrobe for this clothing optional resort. It’s kind of funny that we are going to talk so much about clothing for a clothing optional resort. We all like to look our best so here is a rundown to ease anxiety and help you feel proud in your own skin.
The mornings tend to start late & slowly at Desire because each night is so exciting. Couples tend to wear casual clothes to breakfast (which does require clothes). You might want to pack some gym clothes if you really want to workout but most couples tend to save their energy for more sensual activities. The most common breakfast uniform is gym shorts and a tank top.
There is no dress code for the pool or Jacuzzi. Wear as much or as little as you like. A few people opt for full body tanning and never put on a bathing suit. If you feel more comfortable in an enticing swimsuit, you won’t be the only one. Sexy bikini bottoms can be found all around the resort, but the tops are much less common as most women bare their breasts. You might even see an occasional one-piece suit.
Many first-timers are surprised by how quickly they overcome their shyness and shed their outfits. It is not unusual to meet someone in traditional swimwear one day only to find them wearing little more than a smile the next! Keep it on or take it off, the choice is entirely yours. Desire is about people being comfortable and having a fun, non-judgmental time. You do what feels right to you, and everything will be fine.
The best thing about being naked at the pool is that it keeps your bathing suit dry for when need to put it back on for lunch in the restaurant. Men usually put on a t-shirt and shorts while most women dine in a stylish cover-up.
After lunch, it is back to the pool and the optional sensual workshops which can be very intimate between you and your partner. The Jacuzzi area is a low traffic gem in the early afternoon. The lounge opens at 1pm, but people don’t tend to migrate from the pool to the Jacuzzi till 4pm or 5pm. The Jacuzzi area tends to be more sexually charged than the pool, and just about everyone chooses to be naked under the bubbling water.
The dress code for dinner is sexy. Ladies tend to wear slinky, low cut dresses that they would never wear back in the vanilla world. Men don’t often get very spicy – most wear a polo or button down shirt with slacks. Couples tend to upgrade their footwear at night. Flip flops are good for the daytime pool but high heels are the preferred option for ladies and men tend to go with nice loafers.
Each night of the week has a different theme. Most ladies dress to fit the themes. Sadly, few men dress accordingly. You should wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident.
Here is what many people wear for the nightly theme parties:
- Masquerade – Ladies wear masks, lingerie & heels. Men wear masks & cloaks.
- Masters & Mistresses – Pull out your favorite latex and leather pieces or anything black.
- Desireland – Ladies wear corsets, feather boas and burlesque style. Men wear their suspenders.
- Gods & Goddesses – Roman and Greek costumes, get your togas ready.
- Neon Night – Couples wear their sexiest bright white or neon outfits.
- Latin Night – Ladies wear colorful dresses & men wear flowered shirts. Think flamenco dancers and tango dresses with thigh high slits.
- Red Carpet Affair – Couples dress up as their favorite movie couples like Bonnie & Clyde or old school Hollywood glam.
Check the Desire website for the latest theme night schedule as it can change during the year.
If you are new to this naughty lifestyle, you might be interested in expanding your sensual wardrobe options. So where do you shop for these naughty things? Here are some of our favorite places:
- Ami Clubwear (Clothes, Swimwear, Lingerie, Costumes)
- PinkBasis (Clothes, Swimwear, Lingerie, Costumes)
- ChicMe (Clothes, Swimwear, & Lingerie)
- Edens Fantasy (Lingerie & Toys)
- Lingerie BareWeb (Lingerie)
- Soma Intimates (Swimwear & Lingerie for large breasts)
- Torrid (Sensual Plus Size)
After talking so much about clothes to look your best, we should take a moment to talk about how to look your best when you aren’t wearing clothes.
Ladies – Relax, you look great. This is a welcoming resort and the guests appreciate the true beauty in any size, shape, and shade. Every lady’s body is just naturally beautiful. Your tiny wrinkles are invisible to others when your smile is so bright. That stretch mark or blemish is hidden by your sensual feminine curves. We are our own harshest critics. For the biggest ego boost of your life, just listen to and believe the very appreciative men and women you will find poolside.
Most ladies go bare down there while others leave a landing strip. You should do whatever makes you feel most comfortable.
As for breasts, you will see a wide range on display. There will be a good mix of big implants, small implants, little naturals, big naturals, perky peaks, and everything else. All breasts are beautiful! What’s that saying? Oh, right. Once you’ve seen one pair of breasts you want to see them all! They are all wonderful so flaunting your girls with pride – in or out of a bikini top.
Men – Sigh, how can we say this politely? You likely some work. Ladies tend to take more pride in their appearance year-round, but men often let themselves go a bit. Now’s the time to get serious about your grooming game. Most male guests completely remove the hair around their family jewels or trim it short & neat. The Sasquatch look is not a huge turn-on. Insider tip: less hair will make your equipment look larger. Also make sure that your chest & back hair isn’t out of control.
Remember to apply good sunscreen all over because the Mexican sun is extra strong. Better yet, ask your smoking hot new friend to help make sure you’re well covered. Just remember to get the lotion off your naughty bits before you do anything naughty with new or old friends.
Naughty Travel Guide to Desire Resorts
- Welcome to Desire Resorts!
- Best Time to Visit Desire
- Choosing Your Room
- What to Wear
- Dining Options
- Desire Discounts & Savings
- Less Thinking, More Drinking
- Entertainment Options
- Sexy Fantasies Made Real
- Swinging at Desire
- Beware Timeshare Tangle
- Drawbacks of Desire
- Other Sexy Vacations
- Weird but Helpful Tips
- Packing List for Desire
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