Virtual cyber swinging is one of the softest forms of swinging, where couples engage in sexy play with people online. This can include sexy messages, video chats, masturbation, or sex on camera. This is often a comfortable entry point for couples that aren’t yet sure about having an in-the-flesh swinger experience. Couples can indulge in a virtual fantasy – looking but not touching. It’s not unheard of for couples to start with cyber swinging and then meeting up with their online partners if a connection happens, but it’s never an expectation. Most often, couples cyber swing with their online partners and then release that built-up excitement together in bed with their own sexy partner.
But the beauty of online swinging is the freedom to customize it however you want. Emailing, texting, photos, videos, parallel play, group sexting, and so much more are all on the table for cyber swingers. Some couples commit only to texting and create alluring characters for themselves to play, often coming up with fabricated lives, changing their regular way of speech and using fake names – essentially building an alter ego for their virtual selves. If you like role playing, or fancy yourself a wordsmith when it comes to sexting, cyber-swinging is a great option for you. If you like to be watched and want to interact with other partners but aren’t quite ready to take the plunge and go for a full swap, video chatting is the most interactive option.
If you attend a swinger party but decide not to swap on that particular night, you can always request to stay in touch and get a couple’s online contact info to arrange a cyber-swap. Or maybe you met a sexy couple that lives far away but you’re keen to swap again, you can try video chatting as a long-distance swap option in the absence of the ability to meet up in person. Losing touch with fun people is the one big downside to meeting swingers on vacation!
One of the best things about the internet is how it connects people all around the globe. Another is all the porn. Cyber swinging combines these two ‘bests’ and allows couples to play with people from all over the world! If you are a swinger in a rural town, it might be hard to find swingers in your area, and you might get sick of driving long distances to clubs and parties. With cyber swinging you don’t have to stay local, you can cyber swing in the comfort of your own home without even having to get dressed (unless you like to undress sensually, in which case clothing is still necessary… at least for a little bit). And if you’ve always been hyper-attracted to people from another country, cyber swinging makes it easier for you to live out that fantasy, too. Searching through online swingers sites is an awesome way to find other couples who are keen to get naughty online. If you’re open to the idea of eventually meeting up with your cyber swinging partners, it’s best to stick to your local swinger dating sites.
Some couples engage in cyber swinging by sitting next to each other while playing with different people on separate devices, and some couples play together on camera with other pairs or singles. As usual, it’s important to lay out the limitations of your swinging relationship with your partner beforehand, even when it’s online. It’s important to know how far you can go, and to keep an open dialogue about what you want. For example, some couples limit the number of hours they spend online per week, or limit the length of time an online relationship can continue.
Video chatting delivers the ever sexy look-but-don’t-touch fantasy, and is more interactive than watching conventional porn. There are both free and paid video chatting options, with the paid options typically providing a higher quality and more variety. Signing up is usually free, and then your access to video chats is operated by credits, which can cost anywhere from $5 to $500. The prices swing (pun intended) vastly based on the website and how many credits you’re after.
If you choose to video chat, be aware that there is software out there that can record your webcam footage, and you might be terribly surprised to come across your video on another website. If that doesn’t bother you, that’s fine, but it’s good to be aware of the risk. If your video ends up on another porn site, you should at least be paid for it! If you’d like to remain entirely anonymous, you can try sexy costumes, masks, or make up to cover your face. Be sure to cover up any notable tattoos, and set up your cam in a location of your home where there aren’t any family photos or other easily identifiable objects.
Kik was once the best place for cyber swingers to exchange sexy photos and messages, but despite having millions of users around the world, the company announced it would be shutting down & then reversed the decision. That confusing announcement & reversal led many swingers to find an alternative messenger app for cyber swinging. Many turned to other platforms like Snapchat, WeMe, and Wickr. Wickr seems like the most anonymous and secure way to chat with other partners as your content is end-to-end encrypted and no email or phone number is required to sign up. It would be useful to download this app before finding cyber swing partners, so that you’re ready with a contact to give them if you decide to take things mobile. As with video chatting, it’s up to you how anonymous you want to stay, but creating a private email address is a wise way to keep your professional and personal lines from crossing. Go here for more swinger privacy tips.
Those who participate regularly in virtual swinging give it rave reviews, saying it has helped to strengthen their existing relationships, and foster openness and honesty between both partners. Cyber swinging tears down the barriers that some might feel while in a conventional monogamous relationship, and gives people the freedom to explore sexy play with others. But it also maintains that level of physical monogamy that is removed with real-world swinging. It’s a great place for people to start who are unsure about how swinging might affect their relationship. There are many sites that can get you started, and you can use the popular swinger dating site for your local area to find swinger couples looking for cyber swinging couples who might be interested in eventually meeting up in real life!