Even the most open-minded of us will sometimes want to say no to new adventures that come our way. Maybe it’s a matter of not feeling safe with the person. Maybe it’s because of previous things you have heard about them before. Or maybe it’s because you simply don’t find the person doing the asking … [Read more...] about Saying No In The Swinging Lifestyle
Safety
Bringing Up STI Testing with Swingers
Does the thought of asking new potential partners for STI or STD tests fill you with fear? Did you have a shot of anxiety just reading the title? However, for safe play, even if you are participating in soft swapping, asking potential playmates about STI test results is the smart way to protect … [Read more...] about Bringing Up STI Testing with Swingers
Spotting Scammy Swinger Profiles
The Swingers Help team has been moderating swinger forums for too many years. We are close to developing PTSD from the crazy volume of unsolicited dick pics we've had to wade through. After seeing hundreds of swinger ads every day for years, we have noticed plenty of scammy trends. We are sharing … [Read more...] about Spotting Scammy Swinger Profiles
Help With Your Swinger Cover Stories
Are you worried about keeping your swinging lifestyle fun private? Are you looking for an excellent cover to keep your swinging fun a secret? Relax. Your friends at Swingers Help are here to help you ease away those worries. … [Read more...] about Help With Your Swinger Cover Stories
Consent and Open Communication for Swingers
Delving into the swinging lifestyle can be an incredible adventure, filled with exciting new experiences that unexpectedly enrich your relationship. Of course, it also presents challenges that can put your communication skills to the test. Seasoned swingers are often excellent communicators. They … [Read more...] about Consent and Open Communication for Swingers