Even the most open-minded of us will sometimes want to say no to new adventures that come our way. Maybe it’s a matter of not feeling safe with the person. Maybe it’s because of previous things you have heard about them before. Or maybe it’s because you simply don’t find the person doing the asking … [Read more...] about Saying No In The Swinging Lifestyle
Rules
Choosing Your Hotwife Rules
Now that you've honestly communicated to your partner that the idea of an open marriage excites you and you've both agreed to it, the next step is to lay the ground rules for hotwifing. To have a healthy open relationship, there must be an understanding between you and your hotwife about how you … [Read more...] about Choosing Your Hotwife Rules
“Rules” to Swing By
To help people new to swinging (& even veterans) stay on a sexy and fulfilling path, we have put together a list of rules to help guide your swinging journey. One quick note before we dive into the rules: relax a little. We're not talking about the Ten Commandments or federal law here. We put … [Read more...] about “Rules” to Swing By
Why Swinging Isn’t Cheating?
A common question by curious couples is why is swinging not cheating? If you are having sex with someone outside of your relationship, it must be cheating, right? When a person cheats, it is less about the actual sex act and more about broken trust and deceiving their partner. The cheater is lying, … [Read more...] about Why Swinging Isn’t Cheating?
Rebounding After Broken Swinger Rules
When you think of swinging, rules probably aren’t the first thing on your mind. Still, there’s no swinging without them. Just like in any other relationship, when lines are crossed, people get hurt. Trust and safety are shaken, and it takes time to rebound and grow from the experience. The … [Read more...] about Rebounding After Broken Swinger Rules