Even the most open-minded of us will sometimes want to say no to new adventures that come our way. Maybe it’s a matter of not feeling safe with the person. Maybe it’s because of previous things you have heard about them before. Or maybe it’s because you simply don’t find the person doing the asking … [Read more...] about Saying No In The Swinging Lifestyle
Etiquette
Tips For Politely Canceling Swinger Plans
Even well-laid plans can sometimes go awry because life gets in the way. No matter how well we have made sure that our schedules are free. No matter what preparation has been put into place. Life sometimes has a way of getting one over us. Maybe illness, childcare isn't available, or you don't … [Read more...] about Tips For Politely Canceling Swinger Plans
Gently Rejecting Swingers After Swapping Pics
Whether you are new to swinging, or a seasoned lifestyler, there are some interactions that can feel challenging. One of these is rejecting swingers after seeing their pictures. What can make this feel difficult is wanting to do it in a gentle way. After all, everyone involved is taking the risk of … [Read more...] about Gently Rejecting Swingers After Swapping Pics
Naughty Etiquette for Playing At Sex Parties
So you found a sex party & snagged an invite. You are cruising around so gracefully & enjoying yourself. But how does someone transition from casual conversation to naughty negotiations and sultry sex? First, we need to cut back on those alliterations. We want to keep our cool. Let's act … [Read more...] about Naughty Etiquette for Playing At Sex Parties
Modern Etiquette for Sex Parties
Attending your first orgy or sex party can be a wonderful and thrilling experience. It can also be nerve-wracking if you don't know what to expect or how to behave. Luckily, we've compiled a list of basic rules and etiquette for sex parties - from what to bring to what to do when the party ends. … [Read more...] about Modern Etiquette for Sex Parties