In case you aren’t familiar with the cuckold concept, here is a very oversimplified explanation … a cuckold takes pleasure from having his wife cheat on him. There are many different permutations and styles of cuckolding.
Some cuckolds like to be embarrassed, others like to have their sperm compete with other men, some cuckolds want to watch and others don’t. Cuckolding is part of the BDSM lifestyle and tends to focus more on the power dynamic and less on the actual sex. BDSM and the swinging lifestyles often brush shoulders with each other. They are both part of the overall sex-positive world. Cuckolding is not swinging.
You might encounter cuckolding in the swinging world just like you might encounter some swingers wanting to be spanked. We all have different fetishes and some BDSM fetishes can occasionally cross over into the swinging lifestyle. This is not typical but it happens. Typically swingers aren’t looking to play power games though we do enjoy fun swinger games. Usually the swingers’ goal is to have hot sex. We are not intentionally trying to mentally embarrass or humiliate another guy.
If you are worried about cuckolding, don’t be. It isn’t typical for sexy swinging playtime. There is nothing wrong with cuckolding but it usually is not a good fit with many swingers. More often swingers are swapping partners and if there is a cuckold in a swap, then there is probably going to be an upset lady who is not having sex. When a lady is upset, the sexy fun is quick to end. This is why cuckolding is not common in swinging.
If you want to have cuckolding fun in the swinging world, it is easier to setup a MMF or MFM swinger threesome (2 guys & 1 lady). There are many single men in the swinging world and you can find one willing to be your bull (the dominant man having sex). You can debate if this threesome is swinging or a BDSM play session. We choose not to worry about definitions and enjoy the many different opportunities in the wide world of being sex positive.