In case you aren’t familiar with the cuckold concept, here is a very oversimplified explanation … a cuckold takes pleasure from having his wife playing without him.
There are many different permutations and styles of cuckolding. Some cuckolds like to be embarrassed & other cuckolds are strongly turned off by that. Others like to have their sperm compete with other men. Some cuckolds want to watch and others don’t. There are many ways to explore the cuckolding aspect.
Cuckolding is more a part of the BDSM lifestyle and can focus more on the power dynamic and less on the actual sex. BDSM and the swinging lifestyles often brush shoulders with each other. They are both parts of the overall sex-positive world. Cuckolding is different from swinging.
You might encounter cuckolding in the swinging world just like you might encounter some swingers wanting to be spanked. We all have different fetishes and some BDSM fetishes can occasionally cross over into the swinging lifestyle. Typically swingers aren’t looking to play power games though we do enjoy fun swinger games. Usually, the swingers’ goal is to have hot sex. The more people involved, the merrier it is in the swinging lifestyle so swinger men are usually active participants.
If you are worried about cuckolding, don’t be. It isn’t typical for sexy swinging playtime. There is nothing wrong with cuckolding but it is different than the swinging lifestyle. More often swingers are swapping partners and if there is a cuckold in a swap, then there is probably going to be an upset lady who is missing a swap partner. When a lady is upset, the sexy fun is quick to end. This is one reason cuckolding is not as common in swinging circles. Cuckolding is more likely to happen on hotwife dates.
If you want to have cuckolding fun in the swinging world, it is easier to set up an MMF or MFM swinger threesome (2 guys & 1 lady). There are many single men in the swinging world and you can find one willing to be your bull (the dominant man having sex). You can debate if this threesome is swinging or a BDSM play session. We choose not to worry about definitions and enjoy the many different opportunities in the wide world of being sex-positive.