We are going to need some party supplies to have the best time which is why it is very common for swingers to pack a party bag even for local parties. This can be as small as a purse or as a big as luggage depending on what you want. Here are some things to consider putting into your party bag.
Condoms – Bring many more condoms than you need. Condoms break and you’ll need to change condoms each time you change partners. You might also want to bring an assortment of condom sizes in case your play partners don’t pack enough. This ensures play time keeps rolling along. The wrong condom size can lead to condoms slipping off or breaking off which isn’t fun.
Lube – Make sure the lube is compatible with your condoms, toys, etc. There are many different types so make sure to pack the right match. You can buy small lube packets if you don’t want to bring a big bottle.
Toys – Most swinging situations are so hot they don’t need any toys. Toys are more common for girl/girl playing. If you bring toys make sure to have condoms to cover them up to stay safe and change the condoms for each sex partner because you can get a STI from a toy. Also have a plastic bag to put the dirty toys in after you are done playing.
ED Pills – Many men are using ED pills. If you benefit from them, make sure to properly plan. You want to take your pill early enough so you will be all ready when play time starts but not too soon that the effects wear off before the playing is finished.
Flat Shoes – Ladies those high heels look super sexy but after a long play session you just might want to put on some comfy flats as you get dressed and go home.
Hand Sanitizer/Wipes – Sometimes there is a line for the bathroom, so having cleaning supplies can be helpful. Baby wipes are great for quickly refreshing after a long and sweaty play session.
Cash – Have plenty of cash. This makes it easier to split any bills if you are meeting for drinks, dinner or getting a hotel room. If something goes wrong you can just leave money on the table and leave. More likely things will be going so well, you’ll want to just leave cash to pay your tab as you all scurry off for a hot play session. Make sure to bring plenty of singles so you can tip the bartender even if it is a BYOB party.
Mouthwash/Disposable Toothbrush – Most likely you are going to be making out so you want sexy fresh breath. Pack some travel size items to help you keep your breath sexy fresh all party long.
Water/Gatorade – Play sessions can turn into quite the sexy workout. It is very common to bring water bottles or even Gatorade to help you catch your breath before the next session of your sexy workout begins.
Camera – Don’t pack a camera unless everyone is comfortable with it. A sexy photo shoot can be a great way to ease into a play session or to fill up the time while the guys recover for the second or third round of sexy time. Some people will get extra turned on with a camera and others will freak out. Don’t assume and make sure to ask first.
Spare Underwear – Having a clean pair of underwear in a small zip lock bag can feel really nice at the end of the party.
Swimsuits – Swingers tend to act a bit more like nudists at swinging parties with a pool or a hot tub, so many experienced swingers will be chuckling about this one. At swinging parties you can choose your comfort level and wear a swimsuit if you prefer. Swingers want everyone to feel comfortable, so it really is up to your comfort level (and of course the rules of your swinger party). More likely you will pack a swimsuit for when you have a play date at a hotel. Unless it is a full swinger hotel takeover you will need to wear a swimsuit if you want to use the hotel pool.
Portable Speaker – Load up some sexy playlists on your phone and then play them on your portable speaker. It can help to set the right vibe for your play session.
Phone Chargers – You don’t want to run out of phone juice while you are busy using the phone for GPS directions, texting the sitter to stay a little longer & booking a last minute hotel room plus those sexy playlists on your phone.
Towels – Most swinging clubs/resorts will provide free towels but having a spare towel can be very helpful. If you are playing at a hotel, always ask for extra towels as soon as you get in your room so you won’t have to wait later in the night. There might be some sexy squirting that needs to be cleaned up or a bunch of sexy people taking showers.
Contact Cards – Some swingers have their screenname & swinger contact info printed on a business card. It makes it easier for people to remember you the next day especially if it is a big party with a bunch of mingling and socializing.
Alcohol – Some alcohol can be a great social lubricant and ease the nerves just don’t go overboard. Sloppy drunk isn’t sexy or appealing. Feel free to bring extra in case you want to share with new friends.
Candy/Snacks – A bit of a sugar rush can be really helpful after a long play session. It can also be nice to have something for the trip back home if it is a long trek.
Honestly we could go on with a bunch more things that different swingers pack in their play bag. Like hair ties, corkscrew, bottle opener, cups, shot glass, multiple lingerie outfits, tylenol, tampons or a moon cup, and so much more. Don’t worry and don’t go crazy. It’s supposed to be fun and not stressful. The most important thing to pack is a great attitude and confidence in your sexy body. The more you play, the more you will figure out what you like to bring for the different swinging situations.