If you want to find swingers, then check out these swinger dating sites! Grab a free email address that can’t be traced back to you (gmail, yahoo, protonmail, etc) for extra privacy. Pick a random sexy username that doesn’t identify you in any way. Remember you can always share more later on, but you can’t un-share something once it is online.
We’ve reviewed the most popular swinger personals websites to help you figure out which one is best for you!
There are over 25 different national swinger community sites just in the US, and quite a few regional ones plus several international sites. None of them are perfect. They all have problems. The frustrating thing is that the newer swinger sites have excellent features, are easy to use, have sexy designs, and address the complaints we have with the older swinging community sites. But they can’t attract enough members. The more established swinger sites have huge numbers of active swingers, but they look and act like they were built by a high school kid. You can ask local swingers or check out our list of most popular swinger dating sites for your local area to find the type of people you are seeking.
USA SWINGER SITES
Swinger Date Central aka SDC – Big USA swinging community and even bigger international swinger website. Has great search features to find the right swingers for you. It’s extra popular in the Southern USA & great for international vacation spots. For more information, read our complete review of SDC.
Swing Lifestyle aka SLS – One of the biggest USA swinging communities. The site desperately needs a redesign and lacks many features but it’s very popular in many different USA cities so swingers suck it up and deal with it. For more information, read our complete review of SLS.
Kasidie – Good swinger website for many cities in the USA. It has a very large community and is growing in popularity. In the cities with a large membership, they have monthly socials for lifestyle ladies to connect. For more information, read our complete review of Kasidie.
Adult FriendFinder – Hookup site for horny people, not swinger centric. Open to single men, and wow, is it flooded with single men. It’s a huge crowd, but not usually the best option for finding fellow swingers. Good for US, Canada, & International.
Fetlife – This is a huge site that focuses on BDSM & fetishes. It is not a swinger website. It is good for finding people to chat about any fetish, but it is not designed to be a dating site, so it’s very hard to connect with people for sex.
Quiver – More of a regional swinger website that is trying to become a national site in the USA. Decent design & site features but smaller community so can be hit or miss if they are good for your USA location.
Lifestyle Lounge – Legacy swinging website that has not kept up with technology. Unlike SLS they don’t have a big community to make up for the poor web experience. Many complaints about this site.
SwingTowns – Utilizes a Facebook-style layout for finding & connecting with swingers polyamory couples, and threesomes. A bit easy to learn how to use if you’re familiar with Facebook.
Craig’s List – Casual Encounters – CLOSED. Due to changes in US law, all USA personal ads have been deleted from Craigslist. We need to move on. There have been many new sites trying to replace this but none of them have succeeded and too many of the free replacements are dangerous and costly scams. Be extremely careful with any free site because it is also free for scammers to join and create multiple accounts.
3Fun – This is a lifestyle mobile app and not a swinger website. Tends to attract people curious about threesomes and casual encounters. Tends to have a higher percentage of nervous people who are more interested in browsing and too scared to actually meet in real life. It’s viable if you live in a large city, otherwise, it is best to use a dedicated swinger site.
INTERNATIONAL SWINGER SITES
Swinger Date Central aka SDC – Huge international swinger website. This is probably the biggest international swinging community. Great search features.
Fabswingers – Great UK swinger website. It also covers the US, but it best serves UK swingers.
Kiwi Swingers – New Zealand swinging community
Swinging Heaven – Canadian swinging community
Red Hot Pie – Because Australians also like to swing.
USA REGIONAL SITES
C4P aka Club Foreplay – Closed down on December 6, 2024. It was a swinging website for the Midwest USA—a popular option for Arkansas, Kansas, Missouri, and Oklahoma. If you were in their region, it was a good option. Here is a link to our complete review of C4P. To see where the Midwest swingers migrated, check out the current swinger site rankings.
Swingular – Regional site targeting Utah. Go ahead and make a polygamy joke; they have already heard it.
Every month, we look for new sites and updates to these websites. Honestly, there are so many new arrivals that try to break into the swinging community that it is hard to find enough time to review them. Sadly, most of them just don’t survive long because they can’t attract enough swingers 🙁