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The wife and I went to our first club. It was located in a rough downtown area. When we pulled up it looked quite dodgy being on a dead end street in an industrial area with some shopping carts & litter all around. We had to circle a few times before realizing we were at the right place. We parked and headed inside. The placed was supposed to open at 9 and it was 10pm but the parking lot was mostly empty. We had to fill out some paperwork, nothing too long but it was definitely nerve-wracking filling out something like this. We used mostly bogus information.
Once we finished the paperwork, they sent us on a tour with a super friendly couple. The wives did most of the talking and answered our questions making us feel much less uncomfortable. They introduced us to the bartenders for the BYOB alcohol. They were super friendly and were making a batch of shots which they also offered to us. We gave them our bottle of wine and they gave us a numbered chip so we could reclaim it later.
The tour continued as they showed us the second floor. This place was much bigger and nicer than it looked from the outside. It had two bar areas, dance floor with a stripper pole, game room, lockers, showers and a real DJ and sound and lighting system. Off to the side was a curtained area. It had an attendant overseeing several small rooms and changing sheets. One room even had a symbian machine. We were really very relieved to see they had someone that did change sheets in between which was something we wondered about. Each room had a window with a curtain so you could choose to let people look inside or keep it private. There was also a large group area. It was like 8 large leather ottomans connected together. After the tour the couple dropped us off at the bar for us to start our night.
We had some of our wine and the same group from before offered us another rounds of shots. Don’t know what it was but it was sweet and easy to drink. We found an open table to sit down by ourselves and talk. It was a bit of overload taking in so much. We talked about the different couples we saw and the very diverse crowd. A few were really young but most were older than us. We talked with a few of them but were mostly shy.
Another new couple asked if they could sit down at our table. Then a regular couple also joined. We had fun chatting and then the regular couple asked us if we wanted to play. We declined but the other couple joined them and went to the curtained off area. We enjoyed our time but decided it was time to leave and so we went home without playing with anyone. We are looking forward to trying another event and feeling more comfortable to actually do something with another couple. The people in the club were very respectable and friendly. It is just a lot to take in on one night. We went home and stayed up talking about it for hours asking each other about different people that we met. We were just too excited to sleep and had a very hot time at home. Definitely worth trying.
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