Shared by NENerds4EXP
We’ve been swinging for 3 months and 14 days now. We’ve had some good, some bad, and some GREAT experiences. Last night was one of those great ones!
In our relatively short time swinging, we’ve had two full swaps with couples, a soft swap with a couple (didn’t end well), an MMF (with a repeat), a hotel takeover, and two house parties/orgies (including last night), with another house party planned next week.
We used to use Reddit and Kik to find people and attend meet and greets; we got our foot in the door with a few good people. Then the Great Migration to MeWe happened, which was really for the best, tbh. One of those good people formed her own group and she and her husband set up a house party for last night. The day before the event, we were the only other confirmed couple going. And we were fine with that because we played with the hosts at a previous house party and were fine doing that again. But then, the day of, a ton of other couples confirmed coming. There ended up being about 10 couples there!
When we got there, we didn’t know anyone other than the hosts. A couple of the other people were familiar from the MeWe group, but we never talked directly on there. So my wife and I kinda didn’t know what to do other than listen to their numerous stories, unable to contribute. I’m betting this is one of the things many people fear will happen at a party. But the male host was awesome; he kept on directing his comments to us, with eye contact, making us feel more comfortable. As more people filtered in, he let his wife welcome them as he led me and my wife on a tour of the house. The tour slowly started attracting more people and, before we knew it, we were all chatting with each other.
At one point we were back in the main room, refilling drinks and snacking. Then one of the other couples started in on a story that involved hard drugs and politics. I could see numerous people were starting to get quite uncomfortable (do NOT talk about those things, guys), so I tried changing the subject by asking someone else about what they did over Halloween. Eventually, one of the good couples suggested we go to the hot tub! We got away from the uncomfortable couple, headed to the room near the hot tub, and all stripped down. It was a balmy 40F outside (about 4C), so we quickly got into the hot water. I sat next to who I felt were two of the most attractive women there (don’t worry, one of them was my wife!).
Almost immediately, the not-wife, we’ll call her J, started touching me underwater, and I reciprocated. More chatting, more touching, and eventually we started making out. I look over and see her husband making out with my wife, so I know we’re all having a good time! A few minutes later I see the husband trying to do my wife, but two things: one, water is not a good lubricant. And two, just don’t have sex in a hot tub! Someone else was probably thinking the same thing, so they suggested we all go to the bedroom.
The bed is large, but not large enough for the three couples that wanted to play. My wife laid down on the bed and immediately started playing with two men and J. Another woman, wife of one of the other guys, we’ll call her R, had her eyes set on me and wanted some private time, just the two of us. Well, before this point, my wife and I have never played apart. We did talk beforehand how there could be a little distance between us, but I confirmed with her first. She said she was comfortable and that I should go have fun with R. And away I went.
Unfortunately, I had forgotten to take my sildenafil, as the action up to this point flowed so naturally that I was just focused on moving from one moment to the next. I don’t need the drug with my wife, but I’ve read plenty of horror stories and I didn’t want to be another statistic, so I always travel with the pills. I popped a couple, but they take a few minutes for me. I ate out R and we had a great time, but I got it in my head to “get hard enough to get the condom on,” and that thought prevented me from doing exactly that. Just had to wait.
In the meantime, my wife came out of the bedroom with the guys and J, just beaming! She was so happy, and I confirmed that she was comfortable with that separate room play (she was). To get the blood flowing where I wanted it to, I made out with my wife, eating her out. While doing that, J started playing with me, kissing me, being all kinds of seductive. I didn’t get a chance to get back to R because J wanted me right then, and I rose to the occasion!
After a few minutes of sex with her at the couch, she suggests we go to the bedroom. So me, my wife, and J all go to the bed and my wife and I have our very first FFM! It was incredible! I will say that one of the best things you can do while having sex is to have fun! And by that I mean you can be silly, or nerdy, or whatever, because if you are all laughing, you’re doing it right! Pillows fell on my face while J was riding me, and the women were cracking up trying to organize them while we played! Toward the end of the session, I came in J, but sometimes I stay hard, so I kept going, and she started talking to my wife: “That was unexpected!” “Is this normal?” The incredulous way she was saying those things just cracked us up again!
J’s husband, R and her husband, they all came in the room when we finished, and we all just chatted. Eventually they started getting dressed, right around the same time I started getting hard again. I was almost resigned to following them, but as they were about to head out of the bedroom, the hostess came down (and she was wearing only a robe, nothing else). I waved her over to get a proper thank you for the hosting. Everyone else went upstairs, but she and I had some incredible fun! Always be nice to your hosts, people! During our play, my wife came down and looked in. The hostess was amazingly considerate and asked my wife if she was comfortable with us playing without her. My wife enthusiastically said yes, but it was still great of her to ask! After one or two dozen orgasms or so, she was spent. Even had a little audience for a time!
After that, more chatting, exchanged information with R and J, then started driving home. On the way, we talked about everything we did and we were both so happy and fulfilled! I wish my wife could give details on the sex she had with the two guys and J, but she is not the story-teller that I like to think I am. Still, we regretted absolutely nothing from the entire night. We talked about all our experiences, our firsts (playing separate, FFM), got home, paid the babysitter, and had our reclamation sex not too long after! We woke up this morning, just incredibly in love with each other and loving where we are in our lives!
We understand that we aren’t typical (what does that even mean, lol). Some people prefer to take longer before jumping in, and some people were just made for the lifestyle. Whether you are experienced or new, there is someone out there for everyone! I don’t work out, got an average-sized dick, my wife is a BBW, and we are not very social people. And yet we consistently find like-minded partners of various sizes and shapes willing to enjoy us for who we are. Personalities are so important for the connections we need, and I bet that holds true for most people. Stay persistent, always communicate, and you’ll have a great time!
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