Shared by BigBroTo
After years of getting cold feet, I finally had the courage to walk into a swingers club earlier this week, and I just want to share my experience.
Let me just start by saying this – folks in this lifestyle are the most supportive, open minded and welcoming people I’ve ever met!
I’m a single guy, and many years ago I attended (couple times) a swingers house party and even though I was young, unsure, nervous, I had a great time interacting with couples. For some reason, the host stopped hosting events, and ever since then I’ve always looked for an alternative. I’d always known that swingers clubs existed, but even in my “vanilla” life I prefer pubs/house parties over clubbing, so I was always hesitant about how I’d do at a club. And there was always that fear of “what if I run into someone I know?” I then realized, if I run into someone I know, that means they’re there for the same thing I am :p
So I signed up to be on the mailing list for a local club in Toronto, and I used to love reading about their different events, promotions, etc. but never had the gall to just go and check it out with my own eyes.
Until earlier this week, that is. Not sure what came over me, but I decided to just step into the place and see whatever happens. And I’m so glad I did it!
As a single male, I didn’t know what to expect, and as open as I was to any possibility, I wasn’t really sure what I wanted from that night. I approached a couple who seemed friendly, started chatting with them, and they were very nice – they explained to me the etiquette around this, gave me a small tour of the facility and shared with me their experiences…both in terms of what they had done and what they had seen take place in the club on some of the “crazier” nights.
Anyways, the chatting and the joking around helped me relax a bit, and I ended up asking them if they’d like to play. They said they’d never seen anyone blushing so hard, but they would love to fool around. So we went into one of the private rooms, closed the door (she didn’t like being watched), and had a great time between the 3 of us
They hung around, we chatted a bit more, but it was a weeknight so they had to get going. After that I approached another couple, and it turned out it was their first time in a swingers club as well! It was nice to meet other first timers – we talked about our nervousness and excitement, what we were looking for etc.
This whole time, there was a couple fucking on the couch behind us. And another couple in a room, but with the door open so everyone could watch.
The whole experience, from seeing the inside of the club and the fancy beds they had 😜, to speaking with couples at the bar, actually getting to play with one, watching others be super open and sexy right in the common areas….the whole thing was just awesome!
And that was on a Wednesday night, I can’t imagine what the place is like on a Friday night.
10/10 would go back – hopefully I’ll run into the same folks as before. Or, maybe I’ll make some new friends 😍
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