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My girlfriend and I are educated, intelligent professionals with open minds and we are the kind who try just about anything once. Sky diving would not be beyond us, but on this particular night we tried a swingers club. We are committed to each other and would qualify as the couple next door to just about anyone. We are sexually “bread & butter” types but enjoy sex among the many things we enjoy together and strive to improve and make more fulfilling.
I knew about Swingers Clubs and often fanaticized about at least seeing one. So my girlfriend and I discussed it and established some rules so if either of us became uncomfortable, it would be ok for us to leave and not take offence with one or the other. I’ve since learned that Swingers clubs offer very good instructions on their websites so we were sure to bring our own bottle, our own lock for their locker, and to dress in clubwear (essentially, dress like you are going out dancing).
My girlfriend likes her alcohol and the environment was conducive to that so we both became reasonably comfortable and loose but not drunk. We got to dance and eat a little, and gathered around the bar to drink and talk with others, much like any night out. Eventually we toured the many open rooms, saw a few couples playing and found that pretty stimulating but decided since we were new we would just head over to one of the sofas for a while where the whole erotic scene actually caused us to start kissing.
So while we were there I noticed another couple out of the corner of my eye doing the same thing perhaps a few seats away. We (and they) gradually became closer somehow. The guy from the other couple was kissing his partner and gracefully placed his hand on my girlfriend’s shoulder and slid it downward to her tits. After a while we reached over and around his girlfriend and did the same. I learned that my girlfriend was bi-curious and apparently didn’t know it. As we both reached around, we found his girlfriend’s shirt opened and her bra removed so it was all very natural with no objections. My girlfriend was wearing a short skirt and no panties at the time and the other guy eventually moved his hand on to my girlfriend’s leg but that was about when I thought maybe my girlfriend wasn’t ready so I moved his hand.
Much later that night I learned that my girlfriend had no objections to that but we had moved on. During the encounter, I initially felt some weird combination of excited and violated but in a very erotic way. I knew mentally we were there to play and have such encounters and the vision of that guy touching my girlfriend along with me at the same time is still outrageously erotic. The challenge was understanding that this was not an emotional encounter, it was the adult version of playtime, much like we used to play at a playground with other kids where we would laugh and frolic. The encounter to an otherwise bread-&-butter couple like us was different, unique in a sense, because we were there together and not otherwise cheating (unless we were cheating together) and erotically stimulating.
You can’t really anticipate how exactly you might feel and in fact there was a multitude of often conflicting emotions but all good and all very positive all at the same time. The best three words I could put together to describe our first encounter is: It Felt Good. You felt naughty but the other couple was very similar and really nice, as normal and educated as we were, and friendly too. Since then we visited other lifestyle clubs and the nights have been mixed: some good, some not so good. We learned that our preferred level of “play” is called “soft swap” where we exchange touching and such, but that’s the story of our first experience.
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