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After more than a decade of satisfying monogamy, my husband and I found ourselves beginning a new chapter in life. Our kid is very independent now and no longer requires a babysitter. We spent months focusing on our health and fitness and self-improvement because we had more free time. Sex got better and better and more frequent as we began to feel and look much healthier and had more nights out on dates together. Our connection was stronger than ever. We talked about sexual fantasies we’d like to explore. We went from zero knowledge about the LS to visiting the Scarlet Ranch and creating a Kasadie profile in a matter of weeks.
What have we experienced since we started swapping? Without exaggerating, literal sex-induced euphoria better than any drug we’ve tried. I see so many posts on here from people considering jumping into the LS and as a formerly very vanilla, very suburban woman who had 2 sexual partners until the age of 31, let me give you a gentle nudge towards taking the plunge if you’re having doubts.
Our first experience was with a couple who, as it became clear, really didn’t want another dick involved in their sex but weren’t having luck finding a unicorn. We met up and by her being (or claiming to be) on her period, sex with her was off the table and the only scenario on the table was girl girl with me receiving but unable to reciprocate. This night was my first time making out with a woman, playing with (gorgeous) tits, and getting some of the best cunnilingus performed on me in my life. Never talked to or met up with them again after what was probably an hour of girl girl play while guys watched. I had a fucking blast but it wasn’t what we were looking for…husband likes to watch but likes to fuck more. We had to try again.
About a week later we had our first full swap. This was eye opening because it helped us see that not everyone in the swinger game has libidos as high as ours. Their stamina was not the same as ours and left us wanting more, but this swap was the first time I got to play with another cock in 11 years as well as kiss another man and go down on a woman. So many firsts! Since my husband only got to watch during our first encounter, this was the first experience for me getting to see him fuck another woman. It was HOT. For us, we think of it as: when we get in that hotel room and close that door, we are released from the expectation of monogamy. It is a gift we give each other. To finally have a chance to see if that thought process would hold up when my husband’s dick was in another woman’s mouth was glorious, because it was just as hot as I hoped. No feelings of jealousy. We’re both letting each other be spoiled sexually for a few hours before putting our clothes back on and going right back to our regularly scheduled programming.
Something completely unexpected: how fucking hot the sex between us was after fucking new people. The dirty talk, the flashbacks to random little sexy things that happened, knowing that my husband was able to land a hot piece of ass and satisfy her…all such turn ons.
Then it happened…we met our match. Chatted online throughout the course of one day and decided to meet. Met for light food and quite a few margaritas. The vibe was exactly what we had been looking for, which I thought would come from meeting people very similar to us but it didn’t. We could connect with them about our kids’ ages and experiences around parenting, but other than that there are political/style/opinion differences that made him and her people we would not have gravitated towards if we were dating single again. The sexual chemistry among all 4 of us though…Lord have mercy. Took the group to a hotel and after 4 hours of intense, rough then tender, slow then fast, horny carnal fucking I seriously started to wonder if a woman could OD on orgasms. I was ready to die in that La Quinta.
Y’all…if you’re thinking about trying this with your spouse, and there’s even a 25% chance you could end up in a 4some like the one we stumbled into that night, it is worth disappointment and flakes and honest to God, the increased risk of STDs. If you love sex you will be high for days after a session of fucking for sport with sexually compatible people. I feel like a black lab who lived to the age of 31 enjoying a little plastic pool in the backyard and then one day I got thrown in a river and could chase ducks…and orgasm repeatedly.
We met up with that couple for a second date last night and I just can’t even put into words the animalistic, brain-turned-off, how am i still wet?, pure joy that I experienced.
And now we are back to our normal lives on a Sunday morning and have both had an experience together that will make us giggle to ourselves throughout the next few weeks. It will make us fuck like rabbits for days. It will motivate us to go work out in the freezing weather because damn, it makes sex fun when you feel hot and energetic. It has enriched our lives truly beyond my wildest expectations. I love sex and it’s like we get to go to the Sex Superbowl every few weeks now and I’m so glad we didn’t wait any longer than we did to start. Because fuckkk it’s goooood.
In conclusion, if you like to fuck and have a secure relationship…fucking give it a shot, ya horn dog. So glad we did.
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