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Meeting First Time Swingers

shared by Georgia & Will

Another weekend and another swinger club to visit. We get our “sexy” on & head out.  The party is in full swing, with great music & ladies taking turns showing off on the swinger pole.  We are enjoying cocktails, the good looking crowd & a very sexy party vibe.

 

We are having fun dancing, drinking, chatting & enjoying life, before you know it, it is already 1am..  So we ask the couple we’ve been chatting, if they want to play.  Next thing you know we are all driving back together to the hotel & find out this is their first full swap.  What an honor to be this couple’s first!

 

So we head up to their hotel room and the guys prepare some drinks while the ladies get more comfortable.  Everyone is complimenting everyone else about their sexy body parts till we casually ask if it would be ok to become more familiar with those body parts.  Now the clothes are slowly falling off as the heat builds up.

 

The guy is ecstatic and just can’t believe his luck with this super sexy scene unfolding in front of his eyes.  He is just so overeager for this to progress.  The lady is happy but very nervous and unsure.  The guy is too excited & trying to increase the pace to start the main event.  We both notice this and slow down the pace to make sure everyone stays comfortable and happy.  It works like a charm, everyone is happy & ready to take the plunge with our different partners.

 

The lady isn’t used to being with someone different, so we take the big plunge slowly.  She quickly relaxes and starts to lose herself in passion.  Now our overeager guy just got a reality check witnessing his wife take the plunge with another guy.  It is turning into a mental hurdle for him and his sexy time is deflating.   To salvage the situation we switch back to same partners and a happy ending was enjoyed by everyone.  The next day, the other couple sent us a happy email and looking forward to the next time.  So yay for us, we didn’t scare away full swap newbies!

 

It did remind us that newbies may talk a good game, but it is hard to predict how people will react during their first time.  If you are newbies, go slow and you might want to play with veterans your first time to avoid rookie mistakes.

 


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Last Updated: June 8, 2021
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