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First swinging experience (kind of?)

Shared by xxoominexxoo


Back story short version, me and hubs have been hoping to play with my BFF and her BF for almost a year now and we went away for a weekend together.

We left Saturday late morning after BFF and BF met at our house. The first thing BFF says to me when she gets there is “I’m so upset my period came!” She seems genuinely upset about it, which makes me think she was hoping for something to happen and now was uncomfortable due to her period. Totally understandable, Hubs and I don’t mind doing the dirty while I’m bleeding but mentally I am not as into it as much as I usually am and physically I usually feel like crap for about 3-5 days. So I was disappointed but wasn’t going to let it completely ruin our trip and told her the same thing. We all took our car (a big truck with lots of trunk space) and drove to the resort.

The drive was about three hours and the drive up was pleasant. Lots of sexy flirting, and good conversations all around. We got to the resort and checked into our room. It had a large king-size bed, another pull out sofa, and a large jacuzzi tub. There were large mirrors placed around the jacuzzi tub as well as another over the pull out sofa. There were two large flat-screen TVs as well. There was a back porch we could sit out on right near the water park, it was a great room. We were all excited to get outside in the sun so we dropped our stuff and changed into our suits. Hubs went to relieve himself and we all grabbed our suits out of our bags. We all just stood there for a moment and BF started to undress and change into his suit. He was wearing boxer briefs that left very little to the imagination.

BFF started to do the same and so did I. She wore a cute high waisted bikini and a low cut top that showed lots of cleavage. She looked great. I wore a high cut thong bikini (first time I was so nervous) and a small pineapple printed bikini top 😉. After putting it on and twirling around in the mirror, I realized I had not felt this excited and confident in a long time. Hubs and I both agree we are not at our goal weights ( having multiple children has done us both in a bit haha) but my extra weight didn’t matter. I felt amazing and free and it showed. BF told me I looked amazing and I complimented her back, smiling.

By this point, BF was changed and went out on the back porch to smoke. Hubs came out of the bathroom and BFF and I were partially naked, BFF did not cover herself or seem modest in any way so Hubs walked passed her admiring her body, and grabbed his suit out of his bag. It excited me to see him excited. By then I was done getting dressed and so was she. BFF joined BF outside and hubs was staring at me. He told me how good I looked and came up behind me touching my breasts and squeezing them hard. He let out a chuckle motioning to my bikini top said “pineapples huh?” And I smiled sheepishly. His hands slid down my waist and hips around to my bare ass cheeks, massaging them, and said he loved my bathing suit. I turned around gave him a quick kiss and grabbed his hand and walked us out to the porch. I had a smoke with BF and we all were deciding what we wanted to do first.

We spent a few hours at the pool, drinking delicious sangria, swimming, going on water slides, and sunning ourselves, we had a great time. There were many times were BFF and I left the boys and were off by ourselves. She was very flirtatious, holding my hand, hugging me, grabbing onto me in the wave pool. My body was super responsive to her touch and I stared at her every chance I got. She has a big beautiful behind and hips and a perfect hourglass shape. Very much something I find attractive.

At one point while waiting for a water slide we both noticed a small framed woman in a tiny thong bikini that made my suit look like a muumuu. We both caught each other’s eyes and realized we both caught the other staring at this woman. We laughed and she said “I can’t help it. If a pretty woman is around me I’m going to look”. It was almost like she felt like she had to say it. I wanted to make her feel comfortable and at ease with being honest with me and I replied “I totally get it, I can’t help but stare when I see a beautiful woman” and smiled at her again.

I swear she blushed a bit as she turned back around to move up a few steps. We then continued talking about what we found attractive in a woman and it excited me hearing her talk honestly. A short while later we went back to our room to get ready for dinner. BF said he wanted to take us all out for a nice steak dinner and we were all starving. We ate at a beautiful steakhouse and BFF and I had some wine. BF was our designated driver and brought us back to the resort. We opened another bottle of wine and decided to try out the jacuzzi tub.

Bf and hubs wanted to sit outside and chat so BFF and I put our suits on and got in the tub. We’re talking about the day and how fun it was, sipping our wine, all of a sudden she said “should we just take our tops off?” I said I was down if she was and we both took off our bikini tops. She told me my breasts looked amazing and fun to play with. I told her she was welcome to if she wanted and how much I liked her breasts as well. We started joking about how they float and being silly. We stayed in a while longer and then started to get chilled.

We got out and changed in the room totally naked in front of each other. I couldn’t stop staring at her. The guys came in as soon as we were done dressing in our sleepwear and we told them they had missed out laughing. BFF was wearing a silk black nightie and looked incredible, I was wearing a soft cotton shirt and thong panties no bra. I felt disappointed that I hadn’t brought something sexier to wear but had not wanted to be too forward. (Next time I will be bringing something much sexier!) hubs and BFF changed into boxer briefs and we all decided to go to wind down.

We talked and decided we would all share the king-size bed, BFF and bf layed down in bed and put on a movie. Hubbs and I decided we wanted to take a bath together and asked if they would mind if we were nude. They said they didn’t mind at all. Hubbs and I both stripped down and filled up the tub with new hot water.

We layed facing each other and hubs was rubbing my feet. We were talking about the day and what we wanted to do tomorrow and hubs moved his hands inside my legs up my thighs to my pussy. He started to play with my clit and finger me quietly. The sound of the jets covered my heavy breathing and soft moans. Hubbs is very good with his hands and got me close to cumming and I put a hand on his and looked over at our friends, they both were watching the movie but as soon as I looked away I could feel their eyes on us.

I then took a turn and decided I wanted to pleasure my husband, I was very nervous and excited as I had never done this in front of others and was working up the nerve to make love to him. I wrapped my hand around his shaft playing with him my other hand cupping his balls massaging gently. I played with his anus just a bit and felt him jump a little with excitement. Once he was thick and hard I looked over at them and then at him again, he knew what I was going to do and I could tell how bad he wanted it.

I slowly took him in my mouth and sucked gently feeling him trembling. I continued to suck him off and play with his balls, hearing him moaning softly. He touched my shoulder and I paused and looked up he mouthed that they were watching us. I smiled with him in my mouth and continued. I could tell he was close and at this point he wanted me to stop and asked me to straddle him.

My anxiety was coming up as I had not seen our friends doing anything and thought they would try to do something together knowing we were. He held me on his lap and asked if we could have sex, I told him mentally I wasn’t ready and felt weird since my friends were not doing anything. We then lightly kissed and cuddled for a little while with me on his lap. He asked me again if I was ready and I said I was still nervous and I wanted to but didn’t know if they were ok.

Hubbs tried to quell my anxiety by asking again if our friends we ok with this and they said they we all good. I ended up chickening out and we got out of the tub. I went to the bathroom to relieve myself and hubs followed. I had tears in my eyes and after I was done he held me and said everything was ok. He knew how big of a deal this was for us and if I wasn’t ready it was ok. I felt embarrassed and like I had disappointed him and told him so. He told me it was ok and he was not upset at all, he wanted us both to be comfortable. I told him if they had been doing stuff I wouldn’t have felt so weird. He understood and we both left the bathroom. We went outside and BF followed.

He could tell I was off and I blurted out “ I wanted to bone my hubs in the tub but didn’t feel like I should because you two didn’t seem into it and I didn’t want to upset you” I held my head down waiting for his response. He told me it was totally ok and not to be embarrassed and they only were not doing anything because BFF had her period and they didn’t want to make a mess in the hotel bed (white sheets) he said again I shouldn’t be embarrassed and if I want to fuck my husband I should. I felt a little better and we all went inside.

By this time we were all pretty beat, but Hubbs and I still wanted to boink. We decided to do it on the pull out couch since our friends were going to sleep. It was a little awkward at first but I looked over at one point and saw them watching and threw my head back and closed my eyes, letting all the pleasure I was feeling from my husband’s cock work through me. I began to relax and really enjoy it quietly moaning as he pounded away. He had my legs up over my head and was drilling deep into me. He was playing with my nipples and I was close to orgasm again but couldn’t get over the edge. I didn’t want to make him hurt any longer so I said “cum for me baby” and he sure did. He hadn’t masturbated or had sex with me for two days prior to our trip and I felt load after load of cum shoot into me.

Hubbs slipped off of me exhausted and we both got up and remade the couch. After that, I cleaned myself up in the bathroom and we both went back to the bed and fell asleep spooning on one side while our friends spooned on the other. The next morning I woke up to a hard cock poking my lower back and my hubs strong arms wrapped around me, feeling his sweet kisses on my neck. He whispered “I need you” and since I didn’t want to wake our still sleeping companions, I whispered back “bathroom”. He grinned and popped out of the bed much more enthusiastically than I ( I am not a morning person haha). I followed him into the bathroom and closed the door as quietly as I could.

I wanted him to take me and have his way with me so I rested my forearms on top of the toilet and bent over staring at my face in the large bathroom mirror. My t-shirt slid up my back revealing my black thong, his fingers traced the outside of my thighs then up to my hips, stopping at my thong. He hummed in the back of his throat approvingly of my panties sliding them to one side over my ass cheek and spreading me open with one hand. I heard him spit into the other and slide his fingers gently over the outside of my pussy lips, then pushed a finger inside me to lubricate.

I winced for a second and he asked if I was sore. “A little” I admitted as he slowly pushed himself inside me. I gasped once his head forced my lips apart and let the rest of him slide into me. “Fuck your tight” he sighed softly, gripping my hips tightly he started thrusting in and out gently watching my face in the mirror gauging my reaction. I squeezed my eyes shut tight and my mouth was open in a small o, my breathing steadily becoming harder and faster. He started pounding me quite hard and I pushed up onto my hands and put one of the mirrors for leverage.

His hands moved to my shoulders and he pounded even harder, mercilessly pounding my pussy. “Open your eyes and look at yourself baby”, he hissed between his teeth and I did immediately. It was so fucking hot, seeing how turned on I made him, seeing him enjoy himself so much inside me, knowing our friends where probably awake and hearing us fucking the shit out of each other. I was moaning loudly at this point not caring who heard and I felt him get really thick and knew he was about to cum, “fuck yeah” he yelled and slammed into me filling me again.

He pulled out and slammed in once more and my breathing started to calm just a bit. He gently pulled out of me and kissed my shoulder. I stood and turned around, giving him a quick kiss. “You still haven’t cum” he said in a low sultry voice his forehead pressed against mine while I wrapped my arms around his neck. He smiled at me devilishly and I quickly said “no no I’m ok, we definitely woke our friends up with that racket, you can get me back when we get home” he smiled and left the bathroom. I quickly used the toilet and then went to the bedroom. Our friends were awake and both smiled at me when I came out. “Morning guys,” I said shyly. “ good morning to you too!” Bf said and we all burst out laughing.

We packed up our stuff so we would be ready to check out and got dressed and went and had a delicious breakfast feast. Afterward we went back to our room and changed into our suits again, the guys brought our other bags down to the car, and BFF and I went to go find a good spot to layout. We spent the remainder of the afternoon sunning and lounging in the pool before having to head home. We had a nice pleasant drive home and we all agreed we had to do this again soon.

Once we got to our home and our friends departed, hubs told me that he and bf had talked some while packing the bags in the car. Bf has told him he thought it was super cute that I was embarrassed and worried about them, and that BFF was really disappointed she got her period because she did want to try things, but wasn’t feeling it with her period. He also said they needed to plan another trip soon around both our periods. Hubs told him how much we would both be looking forward to it.

That night we went to bed spent, exhausted and so happy with the trip. While we would have wanted more to happen, we had a night with our friends, no drama happened, no one was weird or hurt and everyone left wanting to do it again. We got so turned on talking about it that we started to kiss and touch each other. I leaned down and started giving hubs a blow job and he was moaning with excitement. He stopped me before he came and said he needed to be in me.

I decided I wanted to try to do anal and his eyes light up. He had me on my back with a pillow under my butt and him on his knees sitting up. He slowly worked his dick into my ass, not wanting to hurt me while I used my vibrator on my pussy. Once he was all the way in I wanted him so bad I told him to pound and boy he did. I was already close to cumming and he started tweaking my nipples knowing it would send me over the edge. I felt a huge orgasm start to wash over me and my ass clamped down on his cock and he pounded balls deep. I heard some incoherent sound and realized it was me still cumming as my husband came inside my ass, his thick cock pulsing and shooting hot cum into me.

He finally stopped pulsing and could still feel me twitching with aftershocks from my huge orgasm. He slowly pulled himself out of me. “That was a big one huh?” He asked me and I just nodded in response too tired to even talk. I rolled out of bed whining about getting up and went to the bathroom to clean myself up. Once finished I came back to bed slid my sweatpants back on and cuddled with my boo. I laid my head on his chest hearing his heart rate slowing. I looked up at him and locked eyes and said “we should get more pineapple stuff” he laughed and hugged me tight as we both drifted to sleep.


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Published: September 2, 2020
Last Updated: December 29, 2020

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