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So the wife (40) and I (42) have been talking about doing things like adding someone to our activities for about a year now. It started with some dirty talk during sex about what kind of porn we watched and then led to us saying all the stuff we wanted to try and do with other people. Sex has never been better. We’ve gone from 1/month to at least 3-4 times a week. It’s amazing when communication is open and honest.
So we decided we should give it a try in real life a few months ago. We are relatively close to San Francisco and it looked like Twist was a great place to start. We don’t want to do anything too local for privacy reasons. Last night was our first time doing anything outside of a private environment and it was amazing.
We booked a room a block away from the club. The drive into the city was sex fueled talking about all the stuff we wanted to try, what we expected and what our limits were. She watched some threesome porn and described the scenes and saying what she wanted to try. Had a light dinner and took a nap before we headed over. I didn’t feel like drinking too much so we had a drink just before walking over but didn’t bring anything in. I was wearing some nice jeans and a button shirt and she wore a black dress with a lot of side boob and cleavage.
Our experience was just like the reviews so it kind of felt like we’ve been there before. The check in guy was very nice. We got there are 10:30 and there were maybe 4 or 5 couples there already. We sat together and talked as we watched everyone come in. A great mix of people of all ages, but most around the 30-ish range. Filled up around 11:30 and then they turned the music up and people started dancing. Until then we stuck to ourselves as did most of the couples.
We danced a few songs together and sat to rest, watching the sexy people dance. Some attractive women started dance together and asked me wife to join, which she did. They were all feeling up on each other. One woman had an unbuttoned button up shirt on with her breasts just out there, which blew my mind. My wife’s shoulder straps kept falling down and they would rub her while they danced. Watching them got me hard and instantly alleviated my worries of not being able to get it up.
We decided to check out the play room a little after this. She brought a nightie but opted to just wear the towel they provided, as did I. After changing (undressing) we went back.
There was already a couple playing right there when we walked in, it was pretty hot. We sat off to the side to just soak everything in. Besides the couple playing the rest of the people were getting/receiving oral. The wife wanted to get things started as well so she got down in front of me and did the same. I had to stop her after a few minutes because I didn’t want to finish already. We switched places and I ate her out. Some people sat next to us. I saw them watching us and it was so hot. She came there for the first time that night.
We watched others after this and then decided to play on the floor. We went at it for about 30 minutes of different positions until I finally came in her. I tried holding back but as soon as she asks me to explode I can’t hold back. I guess that’s one of her super powers!
We decided to clean up in case we wanted to do some more stuff so we hit the shower real quick. When we got out the place was packed, couldn’t really find a place to sit so we squeezed between some people when we found a little room.
We saw some of the hot women from the dance floor swapping partners and it was so hot, got me hard again. Most of the other couples in our area stayed to themselves though, so we just sat together and watched. Even that was great. We checked out the big play room, which looked like an orgy was going on. We were a little tired and pretty satisfied so we called it a night.
We didn’t play with anyone else or swap, but we plan on going back and trying to do that more. This time around was just us seeing if it really was something we liked in real life or just fantasy. It definitely is something we like and will move forward with. It’s funny, the wife doesn’t like PDA at all, holding hands in public is about the most she can tolerate. Kissing is out of the question. But when everyone in the room is naked and getting down she was super comfortable being naked and having sex.
Our plan for next time is to bring some alcohol in. I’m introverted and need a couple to get to talking with strangers. We plan on talking with more couples during the social hour, so we can do some swapping. Going in, the wife was only interested in finding a unicorn but watching a full swap she wants to try that as well. We figured we will go back to Twist 3-4 times a year and get more and more adventurous. We go to Las Vegas a lot too so we can see what we can do there as well, but I hear it is not the best place for the lifestyle.
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