Shared by E & J
Whoo boy. What a night. Our first experience in the LS was last night at a hotel takeover party and god damn did we have fun. I’m going to give an overview of what happened while leaving out the conversations J (26) and I (27) had throughout the night where we talked about how we felt and whether we were okay to take the next step—that was pretty much constant and would break up the story. It’s a long list because there’s a lot to tell, so bear with me.
We arrive and checked in, feeling nervous and intimidated without knowing what to expect. There was a short into to the lifestyle seminar that we arrived just in time for, which was helpful as it said a lot of the same things we’d read online and heard from others, but hearing it in person from very normal and cool people was super helpful for J and I to feel like we belonged here. While waiting for the seminar to start we chatted with another couple, Chloe and Roger (names changed). We flirted a bit but mostly talked about each other’s LS background (or lack of it in our case).
After the seminar it took a few minutes for the dance floor to get moving but once it did J and I danced with each other for a while, on the dance floor surrounded by people in sexy dresses, lingerie, see through tops, the works. It was a super sexually charged environment but weirdly we both felt way more at ease and comfortable than we thought we would given how foreign the environment was to us. We were the youngest or close to the youngest couple there, with a few other couples around our age but we talked mostly with older couples and everyone seemed really normal and cool.
After we danced for a while I took a break to have a drink with Roger while J asked Chloe to dance. She and J started grinding on each other, feeling each other up, and eventually started making out in the middle of the dance floor. It was INSANELY hot. There was obviously plenty of this going on already, but this was my wife and I just couldn’t believe it was happening. I was so happy seeing J have the chance to explore her sexuality in a way she hadn’t been able to growing up in a conservative/religious household.
After a little while, I asked if I could dance with Chloe too and she said yes, so me, J, and her all started grinding in a line with Chloe sandwiched between us while we were both running our hands over her body. Shortly after this J disappeared for a minute and came back without her dress and kept dancing in just her lingerie (again, not the only one to do this but goddamn was it hot to see my wife open up like this.)
After more dancing, we ended up dancing and making out with another really good looking couple, Annie and Jack, who were more like 20 years older than us. It was crazy but also super fun. Annie was basically naked with these leather straps looped tight around her body with her boobs fully out between the straps. I was going crazy at this point and said in Annie’s ear that she just became the first person I’d ever made out with besides J.
Cut to more dancing, more kissing, and an incredible view of J dancing in her lingerie with her boobs hanging out while 3 women grind and kiss her up and down her legs and chest.
We eventually made our way down to the play rooms and watched some people having sex on the beds which was insanely hot. This was our first time ever seeing other people fucking and we couldn’t look away. We ended up making out in a corner with Annie some more, and she and J took turns making out with me, which might be one of my favorite moments ever.
J and I kept walking around and found a bed in a side room with 3 beds and a few sex swings and only one other bed was taken, so we got naked and laid down in the empty bed and started making love. We went for about 20 minutes switching positions and trading oral, and the whole time people would walk through the room and watched us a little before leaving. Another couple started fucking in the same bed as us and there were several couples having a 6-some in the bed next to us. J ended up coming while I ate her out and another woman sucked on her nipples. I’ll be honest and say I started getting some stage fright and had trouble about halfway through, but after J came she went back to working me with her mouth and hands and was able to finish me pretty quickly. After a few seconds of cuddling we got up and started the awkward yet somehow still thrilling task of finding our clothes and putting them on completely naked while people still stand around watching us and the other couples nearby.
After getting dressed we started saying bye Annie and Jack and made out with them in a dark hallway for about 15 minutes. We ended up having a kissing contest with Annie where she made out with me and J to see who was better, and she said I won 😝 she whispered in my ear that she hadn’t fucked anyone that night but when they got home she was going to think about kissing me while getting off, which was one of the hottest things I’d ever heard.
Meanwhile J and Jack were making out and he was feeling up her entire body while whispering flirty things in her ear about how beautiful she was and how she was turning him on. J told me later she was pressed up against his body and could feel how hard he was.
Overall, it was an incredibly hot and very surreal night. We both felt super positive about it this morning and have been unpacking the experience, and were thrilled to find that we don’t have any jealous feelings or feelings of guilt which is amazing, and we actually left the event wanting more. It was a good thing we stopped ourselves though so we could take time to process and decompress to figure out if we do want to go further. Turns out we do, and will definitely be at the next party!
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