Shared by Nef
Its great to see so many helpful people answer many questions. Its sad for me to see the times when things go terribly wrong as well. This article doesn’t have a question, nor is it a sad tale, or of a super sexy encounter, sorry, just a tale of finding the “right one”.
Quick backstory, my wife and I met very young. We had the hots for each other but lived too far apart to really “date.” Fast forward 20 years and we were reunited.. at the perfect time and place in our lives and have been inseparable since. I always know how lucky I am to have found her but sometimes little things happen that reaffirm this.
I needed her, her past is as sorted (albeit in different ways) as mine. Most things in her past send men running away, these things just get me crazy excited. I fully believe she feels this way about me as well. Its crazy. So.. what’s the point of this? Just a quick story about a random, recent night we had.
She was on her cycle this particular week. Since we’ve been together, she calls this week – Blow job week. First.. how can you not smile at this.. she’s as excited for this week a month as I am. She loves the feeling of giving me attention without receiving. I wish I could force her to just get the attention from me from time to time but that always ends up in mutual satisfying event.
I came in from work and we had a drink. She looked at me out of the blue and says “I just want to run downtown to [insert local party bar name here] and find 2 hot girls and bring them home. One to lick your ass while the other blows you and I watch and play with myself.” Holy crap I hit the jackpot. It was just buzzed pillow talk but the sentiment was real and I know if it hadn’t been a Wednesday, we may have tried.
A couple more drinks in and we are still talking. (over 2 years into marriage and we still talk for hours each night, even more when drinking). Somehow, creepy guys came into conversation and she tells me something along these lines “Yeah some guys just say the worst shit.. it’s like.. please approach me and have a strong game. I may have sex with you, my husbands right there, come play with us. But they never bring good game.” This made me laugh as she’s not really into other men, not even a fraction of how much she’s into other women. I love watching her with guys. We’ve been with a couple of other couples and the male part just never really do it for her so I don’t get to see that as much… but that’s fine with me.
I don’t have to hide anything from her and for the first time in my entire life I have a partner who not only allows me to be 100% me, but wants it. Just like I want her, need her to be 100% her and not hold back. It’s taken time to convince her of this but she’s learning her dark kinky side only brings me closer.
Finally, we were watching a vlog of her favorite porn star, cute girl and fun to watch because you can tell she’s just happy and the girl mentions her premium snapchat (something I wanted to buy my wife for a present) then continues to read an email from a fan about his (the fans) wife liking her (the actress) and she (the actress) says “well maybe you should buy her a pair of my panties and have her wear them.” At this point my wife’s head spun around so fast and shot me this look of…. Excitement, shock and lust all at once.. I about came right there but could do nothing but smile, I got a moment of her teen self I knew from before… it melted my heart, and hardened my cock all at once.
So I guess the point of this is just me wanting to express, in the only way I can.. how head over heals I am for her and how absolutely lucky I feel to be with her now till the end of our days. And I hope everyone out there can also find their perfect partner as well.
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