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You are here: Home / Swing & Tell / An Old Friend

An Old Friend

Shared by Robby

Names changed to protect the innocent.  The players:

  • Hubby (that’s me)
  • Wife
  • Hubby army buddy (HAB)

Me and my HAB have been friends for over 20 years.   I have been with my wife for almost as long.   We are both in our late 30s.  My wife and I have three kids and got fixed after the last kid was born.   My wife is on the short side, a rather pretty brunette.   Having kids gave her a little bit of the mom body.

My buddy is rather tall.   He is a bit awkward.  He went through a nasty divorce a few years ago.   Well, onto the night that opened our relationship.

My buddy was in town, and it was the first time seeing him in a few years.   My wife and I were excited to see him.  They have become friends as well over the years.    He is still single and awkward.

My wife and I have talked about maybe going to a club and dipping our toes into the lifestyle.   Have yet to do anything at this point.

We own a rather large house, and we had it empty for a night due to the kids having some sleepovers.   We were excited just to be able to relax and have a good time hanging out with HAB.

We started the night with a few drinks, nothing heavy.   Just enough to feel relaxed.  HAB has opened up a bit about missing the company of a woman.   We would have set him up if he lived closer.   Apparently, he has not had any sexual relations since his divorce, about three years prior.

After a few hours, into the early hours of the morning.   We all head off to bed.   My wife starts telling me about how sorry for HAB she is.   She seemed very concerned that he may fall into depression.    I asked her what she would like to do?   She said she wasn’t sure.   I mention that we have talked about potentially going to a club.

With that, she asked me what I meant.   I suggested that maybe she goes to HAB’s room and help him out.   She thinks about it and asks if I am sure.   I told her I knew he would treat her right and with respect.    So I gave my wife a wink and walked her to HAB’s room.

We knocked on his door.  HAB answered, and we told him to enjoy the night with my wife.   My wife smiled at me and went into his room, and closed the door behind them.

I went to bed, knowing both of them would be very happy in the morning.   Which apparently, they went at it three times, and both were glowing in the morning.

Later she gave me the details, which led to an awesome time later on.

We are going to our first club next weekend.   She says she owes me one, but seriously I think I enjoyed her telling me, as much as she enjoyed her night.


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Last Updated: February 15, 2022
Written By:Swing & Tell Contributor

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