You are going to be meeting a bunch of new people and hopefully want to have a sexy time with these new swinger friends. So how do you tastefully get from casual chatting to clothes falling off? Don’t worry. We are here to help!
Before we talk about the different swinger game options, we should take a moment to talk about when is the right time to pull out a game. You should only pull out a game after making a connection, and everybody is at least open to possibly playing. These games can get a bit intimate, so you don’t want to spring this too soon in the conversation.
When you are sure you and your partner want to play, you should ask if the other swingers would be interested in playing a sexy game. This gives them the chance to bow out if they aren’t feeling the same connection … which is a possibility. If you already have been touchy-feely and have some clothes off, it is probably not a good time for a game.
Games are meant for pre-heating your oven, and if your fire is already raging hot, then it is probably not smart to take a step back to pre-heating. A game at that point is more likely to cool down your already raging hot moment. You want to carefully choose when and when not to pull out a sexy ice breaker game. There are surprisingly many games for swingers, so pick the right one for your style. We suggest you buy a few different swinger games so you will have options like fast-paced fun with old friends to slow build-ups for nervous couples.
Here are some sexy swinger games to help you break the ice and start your sexy time.
DIY Fire & Ice Swinger Card Game
To help our sexy but nervous swinger friends, we created the Fire & Ice card games. The icebreaker card set asks ridiculous questions to help set up some fun and flirting. When you are ready, you can switch over to the Passion Fire card game to help you transition from flirting to actual hands-on sexy fun. These free card games from Swingers Help are designed for you to print at home to saving you money for even more swinger dates.
DIY Swinger Bingo Cards
We have created sexy Swinger Bingo cards to help break the ice. This is a great game for small & large swinger get-togethers. These cards have sexy things common in the lifestyle and give you all a great excuse to get to know your new swinger friends a bit better and earn some sexy treats each time you win. Our free bingo game is ready for you to print at home, and no one needs to know your swinger secret.
DIY Guess Who?
Blindfold the men and then have the ladies kiss them, rub a body part, or do something else naughty and see if the men can correctly guess who it is. Get creative and enjoy it. Just keep it simple and remember the game just the starting point. It is not the main focus of your party. PS be careful with accidental jealousy – like if someone says this is the best kisser and it is not their partner, it can accidentally hurt someone’s feelings.
DIY Dare Game
We crafted our own version of the classic game of truth or dare with a kinkier spin on the sexy dares. You can customize our free list of sexy dares to fit your personal preferences. Then just print out the sexy dare list on card stock (or a file folder cut in half), cut it up into individual dares, and take turns picking a slip. For more instructions and our sexy dare list, check out our post on the sexy dare game.
Naughty Dice
You can pick up novelty adult dice at any sex toy shop or even get some on Amazon. They usually come with two dice. One die has different body parts (arm, leg, lips, butt, etc.). The other die has different actions (kiss, caress, stroke, etc.). You each take turns rolling the dice and doing that action on the body part the dice show to the person from the other couple. Other naughty dice show a specific sex position that you then need to copy.
Box of Dares
Delight in working your way through this petite but erotically powerful box of 100 naughty dares. This sexy collection of dares for couples are cleverly presented on a perforated roll inside, so each one can be pulled out and torn off when you’re ready for a little erotic inspiration. Ranging from flirty, fun suggestions to more explicit and intimate challenges–but remember, you can always toss aside a dare that’s on your “no” list and pull another. Great for gifting.
Our Sex Game
Play the game of S-E-X and indulge in erotic exploration, stimulating conversations, sexual experimentation, and more–this board game is for all couples. The game moves from Seductive to Erotic to X-rated–the intimacy of called-for scenarios and actions increases as you move along the board. Landing on an OSG square means the player picks a card that sets a scene and lists out actions the players will enjoy together.
Behind Closed Doors Game
When you play Behind Closed Doors, your pleasure begins. Get ready for a night of passion by playing this game. With each roll of the dice, advance along with the game board to either choose a Position, Item, or Foreplay card or strip a piece of clothing. Adult toys for couple’s sex games. The game-winner can use any of their gathered cards in sex play. Varied card combinations make this game different and exciting every time you play.
Let’s F*ck Game
Hey, swingers! Do you like to f*ck? Of course, you do! Packing three separate sexy games into one, the Let’s F*ck deck includes 48 X-rated Let’s F*ck cards, 4 equally scandalous Wild cards, and instructions/rules for three possible ways to play. Great for keeping repeat swinger play dates original and fresh each time and not falling into a routine. This game is a faster track to sexy action, so probably not the best option for first-time swingers.
4Play! Game Set
Want a surefire way to add some extra playfulness, passion, and (probably!) pleasure to your swinger date plans? Here it is! Inside the 4Play Game Set, you’ll find all that’s required to get nice and cozy in four very erotic ways. Games include Foreplay Fortune, Wheel of 4Play, 4Play dice, and some super sexy 4Play Trivia. Plenty of options for hot & naughty ice breakers.
Strip Poker or Blackjack
Ready to turn poker into a sexy swinger game? This swinger poker set has sensual, sexy treats printed on each poker chip. You can also use regular poker cards & DIY them into a swinger game. The winner of each poker/blackjack hand gets to take off any article of clothing from any other person they choose. Once someone is naked, you can have them perform sexy dares until the passion gets hot enough that you forget about the game and focus on more enjoyable whatever hard things might be popping up.
Dare Duel – Game for Couples
In Dare Duel, players take turns drawing cards and selecting words or phrases to create fun and sexy dares to act out while also battling over who will perform the dare. With hundreds of different words and phrases to choose from, the combinations are almost endless, making every game unique. A good option for couples to play by themselves at home or with friends on a date.
Game of Lifestyle Card Set
This company made up two sets of cards for swingers with a very similar style to a truth or dare game. You each take turns pulling out a card and following the dare instructions or ask the truth question on the card. The Ice Breaker edition is a bit too tame for most swingers, but if you are newbies, it can be a good starting point. The cards in this set are good conversation starters but not the best sexy starters. Their Hot N Heavy edition is much more suited for getting the sexy times rolling. The cards range from kissing to taking off other people’s clothing. Each set is $20.
Bedroom Battle Board Game
A game for couples where you play to win fun and sexy dares for you and/or your partner to act out. Use battle cards to compete for reward cards containing three dares to choose from. The player who collects the most reward cards wins and gets to pick a special final dare to end the game.
Sexy Jenga
Buy a regular Jenga game. Then write a sexy dare on each wooden block (feel free to use the sexy dare list mentioned above). You can also write a number of each block and then print a master list page of corresponding dares. This way, you keep the Jenga game vanilla safe & can easily swap out the dare list. Take turns pulling out blocks and doing the dares on each block. If someone knocks over the Jenga, they have to strip off all clothes.
Drawing Without Dignity – an Adult Party Game
Uncensored Pictionary-style adult party game pits you and your disturbed friends against each other in a race to draw and guess unconventional clues. 670 NSFW things to draw, more than most deplorably bad people can handle. One person draws, everyone else guesses, the winner gets to request a sexy reward from anyone.
Naughty Exploding Kittens
Buy a regular Exploding Kittens card game set. Play it normally, but instead of losing the game when you get an exploding kitten card, you have to strip off something. Once someone is naked, you can request special sexy favors and just let the heat build-up till you get too distracted to play the game anymore.
Strip Twister
Buy a regular Twister game from any toy store. Take turns spinning. Whenever someone loses, they have to take off an article of clothing and become the spinner. To speed up the game, you can fold under the bottom row or two of Twister dots so there are fewer dots to be used and the game moves along at a faster pace.
Cards Against Humanity
You can buy this fun card game at Amazon or from the Cards Against Humanity site. Their website even has instructions on how to print your own copy for free at home, which some people do so they can laminate it and use it in the pool or hot tub. Then play the game following the normal rules with a slight twist. With each black card you win, you can cash in for an article of clothing from someone else or a sexual act if they have no more clothes.
Large Group – Lock & Key – Ice Breaker Game
If you are hosting a swinger house party and want to entice your guests to mingle with new people, you can use the lock & key game. Ladies are given a closed lock & the men are given a key that will unlock one of them. Then your guests need to talk with all the other guests to find who is the match to their lock or key. The first two people to unlock win a little prize.
Large Group – Treasure Hunt – Ice Breaker Game
To encourage shy guests to talk with other guests, you can have a treasure hunt. Come up with a list of 5 to 10 things like finding someone going commando or find someone with pierced nipples or someone wearing red underwear or a magnum condom. You can only use a person once on the list to encourage people to talk to several guests to fill out their treasure hunt list. The first person to complete their list can win a prize, or you can have a random drawing at the end of the night for everyone who completed a sheet.
Game Ideas for Hot Tub/Pool Fun?
Do you love your pool or hot tub? Want to share that fun with your swinger friends? You can go skinny dipping, but why not have fun in the water with our watermelon polo, or hot tub footsie, or hot tub dodgeball, and many other wet and sexy ideas. Read our water game article for the details on this wet & wild fun.
Adult Loaded Questions-A Rousing Adult Party Game
The hilarious adult party version of the classic ‘who said what’ game. Features 308 new and classic Adult Loaded Questions, an all-new design, and added gameplay features/components for a laughter-filled Game Night. Questions include: What is an instant mood killer? / What word sounds dirty…but isn’t? / What TV show would you watch if it included full nudity.
Dick Match Party Game – From Drunk Stoned or Stupid
24 Pairs of beautifully illustrated dicks on sturdy cardboard tiles. It plays like the classic “Memory Matching Game,” except it’s the male anatomy, and they are not censored! They are illustrated in all different shapes/sizes to match the hilarious names they are given. A perfectly silly & fun way to start your next swinger party. From the creators of the game, “DRUNK STONED OR STUPID”
Sensations Game For Lovers Adult Board Game
How can a game awaken all five senses? Sensations put everything together to ensure that the mood is set for soft caresses, quivers of sensual delight, communication, passion, and humor. All your senses will come alive! The game includes 2 tokens, 1 die, 1 hourglass, 1 blindfold, 1 board, 2 spinners, 1 notepad, 2 pencils, 1 stimulator, 1 bottle of massage oil, 1 instruction booklet. Sensations Game from Ozze Creations.
REMEMBER…Keep it simple and easy. Swingers get together for sexy action and not to play board games 🙂