Are you hosting a swinger party & want to make it extra special with a sexy signature cocktail? Maybe you are new to a BYOB swinger club & want to bring a special drink that will be noticed and help you break into the swinger cliques. Maybe you simply want to impress your sexy partner with a private hot & sexy night at home. We have the perfect sexy drinks just for you.
Non-Alcoholic
Swingers like to stay sharp so they can perform their sexiest moves. Plus non-alcoholic drinks helps attract swingers that might not like being around alcohol. Here are some sexy non-alcoholic drink options.
Ginger Beer
Yes, it has beer in the name but it’s non-alcoholic like root beer. It’s often used as a mixer but great to drink by itself. Many ginger beers come in brown bottles that are very similar to beer bottles so it can be a good option for non-drinkers who want to stay sober while blending in with other people who are drinking & enjoying a tasty treat. Top brands include Gosling’ Ginger Beer, Bundaberg Ginger Beer, DG Jamaican Ginger Beer, & our favorite Reeds; Ginger Beer.
Flavored Seltzer
These are amazing calorie free drinks with plenty of flavor. We tasted tested to many seltzers and there is actually a big difference. Our preference is Polar seltzer which has many great flavors and also comes out with new seasonal flavors like Blood Orange Sangria or Berry Sweet Grapefruit so it’s always interesting. Make sure to drop in some fresh fruit for extra flavor & a sexier presentation.
Sparkling Lemonade
This is a great non-alcoholic substitute for champagne. There are some imported sparkling French lemonades you can find in gourmet stores or you can make your own. They are available in different flavors and often come in nifty swing-top wine bottles that you can re-use later to make your own. Here is a simple DIY recipe.
- 2/3 cup powdered sugar (dissolves easier)
- 1/2 cup water
- 3/4 cup lemon juice
- 1 cup club soda
- Lemon peel strips from 2 lemons
- Garnish with frozen blueberries or blackberries
Watermelon Kiss
This is a simple & quick blender recipe that will wow them every time. Get a seedless watermelon & cut it up into chunks that will fit into your blender. Flip the blender on & pulverize the watermelon chunks into a slurry. Then mix in some Sprite or 7-up soda pop till its at your desired consistency & sweetness. We usually mix in 50% watermelon & 50% soda pop. Then pour into an ice-filled glass and garnish with a thin sliver of cucumber or some frozen cherries.
Ice Breaker Drinks
If you are hosting a swinger party and want to bring your guests together or you are new at a BYOB swinger club, here are some exciting drinks that you can serve up to help break the ice & make new sexy connections.
Blow Job Shots
Classic sexy drink that is familiar to many women & drives the men crazy every time. What makes this drink special? You are supposed to do your BJ shot without using your hands so the results can be very arousing and entertaining. To make a shot, layer the ingredients into the glass using the order listed.
- 1/3 part Amaretto Liqueur
- 1/3 part Kahlua Liqueur
- 1/3 part Baileys Irish Cream Liqueur
- Topped with a big dollop of whip cream
Angel’s Tit
Some guys will say they are too macho to do a blow job shot but sucking on an angel’s tit? Yes, please! Everyone will definitely be up for this sweet cherry chocolate shot. Layer the ingredients into shot glasses in the order they are written below.
- 1/4 oz Godiva Chocolate Liqueur or Creme de Cacao
- 1/4 oz Cherry Liquor or Brandy
- 1/4 oz of heavy cream or whip cream
- Topped with a cherry
Buttery Nipple
A simple and easy shot that is great at making new friends. No scary ingredients and a sweet lil name to leave everyone with yummy smiles. But honestly its a lil too simple so we like to sex it up with a bonus round of drizzling chocolate syrup on nipples and then asking if anyone wants to help lick it up. Swingers are a helpful bunch and will quickly line up to lick the chocolate syrup. Pro tip – grab a cake decorating bottle with a fine tip & fill it up with your favorite chocolate syrup to better control the chocolate drizzle.
- 1 oz Buttershot liqueur
- 1/2 oz Baileys Irish Cream Liqueur
- Cake decorating bottle filled with chocolate syrup
Drunk Dicks
This isn’t technically a drink but it sure can get you drunk! Grab your favorite gummy bears or gummy penis candies and place in a glass bowl. Then pour vodka into the bowl till they are all covered. Wrap with plastic & let soak for about 1 to 2 days. The gummies will swell up and soak the alcohol. The longer they sit in the bowl the more they will taste like vodka & provide a stronger kick. We prefer shorter soaks so they taste better and we can eat more of them. We like to place them in those tiny 1 oz plastic condiment containers that have lids, so our guests don’t have to worry about fingers touching their candies.
Flaming Drambuie
This is a crazier drink but wow is it tasty and a show stopper. You want a heavy snifter glass for this so it can handle the temporary flame. Pour the Drambuie & Grand Marnier into the snifter. Make sure the area has no spilled alcohol & is clear of flammable items like napkins, fleece clothes or hairsprayed ladies. Don’t do this on a nice table in case someone does something stupid. Have a good non-flammable coaster nearby & a big glass of water … just in case. Swirl the glass to mix the two liquids then top it off with the splash of overproof rum & light it aflame with an extra long fireplace match. Within two or three seconds cover the snifter with your hand (or a coaster) which will suffocate the flame. Now you can inhale the literal intoxicating scent when the hand is removed and enjoy your unique drink. Please exercise extra caution with this drink!
- Double shot of Drambuie Liquer
- Double shot of Grand Marnier
- Splash of 151 Proof Rum
Goldschlager
This Swiss brand of cinnamon schnapps comes with actual gold flakes floating in it. Don’t worry it’s safe to swallow the super thin gold leaf flakes but that 87 proof shot goes down so easy it might not be safe by the third or seventh round. Make sure to sip on something non-alcoholic in between shots to keep you in shape for sexy fun and not passed out.
Jello Shots
This eternal party starter comes with so many different twists that we just had to create a section just for them. The thing we really love about jello shots is that you can go a little lighter on the alcohol to ensure the party is fun & sexy & not sloppy drunk. Plus less alcohol will help the jello shots hold their fun forms for longer.
Screwdriver Jello Shots
Grab some oranges, cut then in half & scoop out the fruit. Then mix up orange jello mix replacing 1/4 to 1/3 of the water with your favorite vodka. Do not use super cheap vodka – be good to yourself. Pour the jello liquid into the oranges you scooped out & let set in the refrigerator. When you are ready to serve them, cut the oranges into quarters or slices for easy eating and a pretty presentation.
Strawberry Margarita Jello Shots
Looking for an extra wow factor? The strawberry margarita shots definitely deliver. Grab some extra big strawberries. Cut off their tops and place them in a cupcake pan to help hold them upright. Then mix up strawberry jello & replace 1/4 to 1/3 of the water with silver tequila. Carefully fill each strawberry with the jello mix & let set in the refrigerator. When the jello is set, take them out and roll the tops along a plate covered in sugar to create the salt rim appearance. Then garnish with a sliver of lime. We suggest going lighter on the tequila because these taste so good people tend to gobble several of them & you don’t want them too drunk for sexy time.
Rainbow Jello Shots
This a fun way to celebrate unicorns and your bisexual swingers. These look pretty & are fun but they take a lot of extra prep work. Grab four or five boxes of jello cherry for red, orange, pineapple or lemon for yellow, lime for green, berry for blue. Start by lining up plastic shot glasses on a walled baking sheet or roasting pan (for easy transporting). Next place a maraschino cherry in each of them. Now only mix one color, we like to start with red. Remember to swap out 1/3 to 1/2 of the water with whipped cream flavored vodka. Pour the jello mix into the glasses. Wait about an hour and then layer in the next color. Keep repeating each hour till you go through all your boozed up jello colors. When you are ready to serve, take out the tray and pour some warm water into the tray so it only touches the outside of the plastic shot glasses. This will loosen up the edges and let you carefully pull out each of the rainbow jello shots.
What’s your favorite sexy drink? Let us know!
