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You are here: Home / Lifestyle Tips / Inside Scoop on Swinger Chat Rooms

Inside Scoop on Swinger Chat Rooms

Stuck at home & want to virtually connect with swingers?  Thankfully technology is here to rescue the day with some swinger chat rooms.  These rooms allow you to broadcast and/or view other swingers so you can enjoy yourself from the safety of your home.

Before we breakdown the top choices of swinger chat rooms, let’s remind you about being safe online.  If you post anything and it shows up on someone else’s screen there is always a way for that other person to permanently capture & record it.  Even if you absolutely trust your swinging friends, they can lose their phones or have their computers hacked which might accidentally expose any private images or videos you shared with them.  There are also some free online services that do not respect your privacy.  Please be careful and be your own best privacy advocate.  Some safety precautions to consider are wearing a mask, keeping the camera pointed below the neckline, and hanging up a sheet to hide anything identifying in the background.

Now our top choices for swinger chat rooms…

SwingLifestyle – One of the bigger swinger dating sites in the USA and it provides video chatrooms for its paid members.  They offer chatrooms for public & private video/texting.  You’ll need to enable flash on your browser for it to work.  The layout looks like it was designed in the 1990s but it works and usually has the most swingers logged on compared to other swinger sites.   A top tier option since it connects you with real swingers and because it is behind a paywall that keeps out fake people.  Here is a link to our complete review of SLS.

SDC – Popular chatrooms for American & Dutch swingers.  SDC is growing in the UK.  The rooms are split up by country.  You do need to be a paid member to access the webcam feature.  You can post in public or private. SLS tends to be more active but SDC is a decent second option. It has a better layout and design than SLS .  Like SLS it will connect you with real, verified swingers and keeps out the fake.  Here is a link to our detailed review of SDC.

Chaturbate – The biggest webcam sites for couples.  This is not swinger focused site but it is a massive deluge of sexy singles & couples streaming naughty video feeds.  If you are looking to watch others for free or even broadcast yourself and a make a few bucks, this is a good option.  The user interface is well designed and easy to use.  If you are looking to have a personal connection with real swingers this is not a good option.  You might find some but they are a small minority on this cam site.  Most of the cam performers are simply looking to make money from their fans tipping them.  Some exhibitionist cam performers can make an impressive amount of cash.  There are other webcam sites but this is the best choice for couples.

Kasidie – Has chat rooms but they tend to have few people actually using it.  The Kasidie site is much nicer than SLS but it hasn’t built up as big a membership base yet.  A good option if you are looking to schedule an online date with friends that are on Kasidie but probably not your best chance of discovering new swinger friends.  SLS or SDC are better options for connecting with virtual swingers. Here is a link to our detailed review of Kasidie.

FabSwingers – The top swinger site of the entire UK does provide free cams and does have a huge membership.  Be careful with this site as it allows free membership so there are a good amount of fake accounts and trouble makers on this website. If you value your privacy, SDC is the better option for the UK since it is behind a paywall which greatly deters that trouble.

Other Swinger Dating Sites – There are over 50 swinger dating sites.  Some of them do provide IM/chat rooms but they tend to have much smaller memberships so it can be quite difficult to find and connect with other swingers in these chat rooms.  We really enjoy many of those sites for being great at different things but when it comes to virtual chat rooms, they tend to not be the best option.

Podcaster Parties – Due to COVID 19, many swinger podcasters are stepping up and arranging virtual swinger events.  Swinging Downunder & Sex Uninterrupted are hosting a living room webinar series that they stream live via Instagram.  Bed Hoppers UK is hosting live online pub quizzes on Saturdays via YouTube & Instagram.  Other podcasters are hosting paid online events.  For more details check out the website or Twitter feed of your favorite swinging podcaster.

Zoom – Free generic video conferencing solution with massive security issues.  Yes, it’s free (for videos chats less than 40 minutes) but you get what you pay for.  If you value your privacy, keep your sexy stuff far away from this.  It has no dedicated swinger membership, it is just a generic video service that some have used in the past for their private virtual swinger dates.

MeWe – This is a generic free social site that is kinda like Facebook.  It is not swinger centric but some swinger groups are using it to host group conversations.  Not the best option to find swingers as it is a generic social network site filled with mostly vanilla people.  It is a possible option to keep in touch with a pre-established group of swinger friends or regular attendees of a swinger party or a swinger travel group.  If you use MeWe, it would probably smart to create a separate account for your swinging posts to keep it compartmentalized away from any vanilla accounts you might already have on this site.

KIK – Generic messaging app that some swingers have used to host group conversations.  Not the best option for discovering new swinger friends unless you are invited to join one of the private swinger group conversations.  It often turns more into a bulletin board experience with people randomly sharing a picture when they feel like it.

If you are curious about swinger chat rooms, you might also want to read about virtual swinger dates and the latest technology of internet enabled sex toys.

Think we missed something?  Let us know and we’ll add it.  Stay safe and sexy!

Last Updated: July 25, 2022
Written By:Dr. Georgia
Tagged With: Technology

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