Are You Ready for Swinging? Welcome to our Swinging Quiz! To help you better understand if the swinging lifestyle might be a good match for you and your relationship, we have put together a simple quiz to provide a fun learning experience for you. Don’t worry, there are no right or wrong answers to these questions. Some of these questions might even be a little hard to decide which answer best matches your feelings. These questions are a preview of things that you can encounter in the swinging lifestyle so you can better understand what you are facing and the different common reactions to these situations. Make sure you and your partner separately take the quiz so neither of you feel pressured to answer one way or another. At the end of the quiz we will explain how to interpret your result. How do you feel about sex? Absolutely love it, can’t have enough I’ll endure it when needed Nice but not at all important It’s fun but isn’t the top priority None Why are you primarily approaching the swinging lifestyle? To please your partner To please yourself To please both you and your partner Fix relationship problems None How do you (or would you) feel after casual sex with no strings attached? Happy Satisfied Questioning Dirty None Is it impossible for swingers to cheat? Wrong, swingers can still cheat Depends on the situation Why does it matter? Correct, swingers can’t cheat None The idea of your significant other being pleasured by someone else makes you feel... Horny Curious Jealous Angry None You sexually playing with another person is fine but thinking about your significant other playing with someone else is not a happy thought. Incorrect, doesn’t describe me Not Sure Partially Agree Very True None Thinking about kissing other people makes you… Very Excited Interested Worried Disgusted None Imagine someone attractive at a party approached you looking for a kiss. How would you respond? Pull them closer for heavy kissing Smile and talk with them Politely excuse yourself Be very upset None How do you think you would feel watching your partner kiss someone? Aroused Happy Uncomfortable Not willing to watch None How do you think you would feel about other people seeing your significant other naked? Happy and proud Indifferent Uncomfortable Jealous None How would you describe watching other people have sex? Awesome Fun Not sure Disgusting None How would you describe being watched during sex? Awesome Fun Not sure Disgusting None How do you think you would feel watching your partner being sensually touched by someone else? Aroused Happy Uncomfortable Not willing to watch None How do you think you would feel watching your partner have oral sex with someone else? Aroused Happy Uncomfortable Not willing to watch None What about watching your partner orgasm with someone else? Aroused Happy Uncomfortable Not willing to watch None How do you think you would feel being part of a group of people having sex together? Aroused Happy Uncomfortable Not willing to engage None You are in the middle of sex with someone new and your significant other needs your help. How would you respond? Stop and help your significant other Ask what is wrong Make your significant other wait for you to finish Ignore your significant other & let them handle it on their own None How confident are you in your knowledge about safe sex? Very confident, I am up to date with the latest safe sex information Confident, it’s been a few months since I researched or talked with a doctor Unsure, I need to do some research & schedule a doctor’s appointment Concerned, it’s been years since I even thought about safe sex practices None If you had something difficult to discuss with your partner, you would… Directly discuss with your partner Drop hints about the topic Wait for your partner to bring it up Ignore and hope it goes away None How sure are you that your current relationship is secure? 100% 75% 50% Less than 50%, relationship really needs help from swinging None How important is total honesty between you and your partner? Critical Important Nice but not necessary Often better not to be honest None You are at a swinger party and spot an attractive couple. After talking a little bit, you feel a strong connection and want to play with that couple. Your significant other does not feel that connection. What would you do? Politely excuse yourself Keep talking & hope your significant other comes around Ask your significant other to change your rules so you can play alone with them Tell your partner to pretend they are interested and just play anyway None How would you rate the current state of your relationship? Great, always happy & communicating Good, enjoying life & overcoming small hiccups Troubled, looking for help improving Desperate, last chance None How honest are you with your partner about sexual fantasies and desires? All of the time, love to share Some of the time, when I'm in the mood Unsure, never tried Rarely, feel embarrassed and/or afraid to share None How often do you and your partner have misunderstandings or a miscommunication? We're almost always on the same page We have some small slip-ups It can feel a bit cryptic between us Regularly, like we're speaking different languages None Time's up
