Are You Ready for Swinging? Welcome to our Swinging Quiz! To help you better understand if the swinging lifestyle might be a good match for you and your relationship, we have put together a simple quiz to provide a fun learning experience for you. Don’t worry, there are no right or wrong answers to these questions. Some of these questions might even be a little hard to decide which answer best matches your feelings. These questions are a preview of things that you can encounter in the swinging lifestyle so you can better understand what you are facing and the different common reactions to these situations. Make sure you and your partner separately take the quiz so neither of you feel pressured to answer one way or another. At the end of the quiz we will explain how to interpret your result. How do you feel about sex? Nice but not at all important It’s fun but isn’t the top priority I’ll endure it when needed Absolutely love it, can’t have enoughWhy are you primarily approaching the swinging lifestyle? Fix relationship problems To please both you and your partner To please your partner To please yourselfHow do you (or would you) feel after casual sex with no strings attached? Dirty Satisfied Happy QuestioningIs it impossible for swingers to cheat? Why does it matter? Correct, swingers can’t cheat Wrong, swingers can still cheat Depends on the situationThe idea of your significant other being pleasured by someone else makes you feel... Jealous Horny Curious AngryYou sexually playing with another person is fine but thinking about your significant other playing with someone else is not a happy thought. Incorrect, doesn’t describe me Not Sure Partially Agree Very TrueThinking about kissing other people makes you… Very Excited Disgusted Worried InterestedImagine someone attractive at a party approached you looking for a kiss. How would you respond? Smile and talk with them Pull them closer for heavy kissing Politely excuse yourself Be very upsetHow do you think you would feel watching your partner kiss someone? Aroused Not willing to watch Happy UncomfortableHow do you think you would feel about other people seeing your significant other naked? Jealous Happy and proud Indifferent UncomfortableHow do you think you would feel being naked with your significant other at a nudist resort? Scared Comfortable Insecure ExcitedHow would you describe watching other people have sex? Fun Disgusting Not sure AwesomeHow would you describe being watched during sex? Awesome Not sure Disgusting FunHow do you think you would feel watching your partner being sensually touched by someone else? Uncomfortable Happy Not willing to watch ArousedHow do you think you would feel watching your partner have oral sex with someone else? Happy Not willing to watch Aroused UncomfortableWhat about watching your partner orgasm with someone else? Aroused Not willing to watch Happy UncomfortableHow do you think you would feel being part of a group of people having sex together? Happy Aroused Uncomfortable Not willing to engageYou are in the middle of sex with someone new and your significant other needs your help. How would you respond? Ask what is wrong Stop and help your significant other Make your significant other wait for you to finish Ignore your significant other & let them handle it on their ownIf you had something difficult to discuss with your partner, you would… Drop hints about the topic Wait for your partner to bring it up Ignore and hope it goes away Directly discuss with your partnerHow sure are you that your current relationship is secure? 75% 50% 100% Less than 50%, relationship really needs help from swingingHow important is total honesty between you and your partner? Often better not to be honest Important Critical Nice but not necessaryYou are at a swinger party and spot an attractive couple. After talking a little bit, you feel a strong connection and want to play with that couple. Your significant other does not feel that connection. What would you do? Politely excuse yourself Tell your partner to pretend they are interested and just play anyway Keep talking & hope your significant other comes around Ask your significant other to change your rules so you can play alone with themHow would you rate the current state of your relationship? Great, always happy & communicating Troubled, looking for help improving Desperate, last chance Good, enjoying life & overcoming small hiccupsHow honest are you with your partner about sexual fantasies and desires? Unsure, never tried All of the time, love to share Some of the time, when I'm in the mood Rarely, feel embarrassed and/or afraid to shareHow often do you and your partner have misunderstandings or a miscommunication? We have some small slip-ups We're almost always on the same page It can feel a bit cryptic between us Regularly, like we're speaking different languages