Looking for local swingers in the UK or Ireland? The easy solution is to join the swinger dating site that is popular in your local area. Vanilla dating sites will not be a good fit because swingers tend to prefer being private and discreet. To enjoy more than your fair share of naughty fun as a swinger, you want to look at the dedicated swingers sites where your local lifestyle friends can be found. Connecting with local swingers will also help you uncover inside information like the sultry house parties or best places and times for dogging action.
How We Tested – Our testers went across the United Kingdom and Ireland to find the most popular lifestyle site for the top cities. We considered many different data points, including free vs. paid accounts, active vs. dormant profiles, couples vs. singles, and several other factors to be as fair and accurate as possible. If two sites had similar popularity scores, they are joint winners. If a site wasn’t the most popular but still noteworthy, it earned an honorable mention. We strive to provide the most accurate results and welcome your help. This list was last updated on May 3, 2021.
We have also researched the top USA swinger sites, the Australian/New Zealand LS scene, and the top Canadian swinger sites in case you are looking to travel.
New Swinger Advice – Most swinging sites offer free registration, but it is often useless. Experienced swingers tend to steer away from free member profiles because they are more likely to be fakers, picture collectors, and other troublemakers. The safer option is to pay for a permanent aka lifetime membership. That sounds scary, but it is usually much cheaper than paying the monthly membership for a single year. To safeguard your swinger privacy, you can pay with a Visa gift card using an alias and a separate email address.
Recap – Fab Swingers is the big winner except in London, England & Limerick, Ireland. London is so big it has many popular options. Many swingers prefer using SDC in London because it costs money to join, which keeps away the non-serious people and trouble makers found on Fab Swingers. We love that Fab Swingers is free, but being so easy to join does create its own problems. As for Limerick, it has a bit of a homegrown swinger community in LDC. Swinging Heaven is an upcoming site in the UK, especially England. Fab Swingers is good, but as we mentioned being a free site, it has many fake profiles like men trying to steal naked pictures and people that aren’t serious and will be a no-show for swinger dates. Keep your guard up when using Fab Swingers & assume they are fake until you verify face to face.
If you have updated information or new insights, let us know. We welcome all help and feedback to improve the value of this list.
2021 UK/Ireland Most Popular Swinging Dating Sites
| City, Country | Most Popular UK/Ireland Swinger Site |
|---|---|
| Birmingham, England | Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven |
| Bristol, England | Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: SDC |
| Leeds, England | Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven |
| Liverpool, England | Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven |
| London, England | Winner: SDC, Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven |
| Manchester, England | Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven |
| Sheffield, England | Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven |
| Norwich, England | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Cambridge, England | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Southampton, England | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Exeter, England | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Dublin, Ireland | Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: SDC |
| Galway, Ireland | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Cork, Ireland | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Limerick, Ireland | Winner: Lifestyle Date Club, Honorable Mention: Fab Swingers |
| Belfast, Northern Ireland | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Aberdeen, Scotland | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Dundee, Scotland | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Edinburgh, Scotland | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Glasgow, Scotland | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Cardiff, Wales | Winner: Fab Swingers |
| Swansea, Wales | Winner: Fab Swingers |
What does a swinger dating site cost?
The prices for the UK/Ireland swinging dating sites are…
Fab Swingers – Hugely popular across most of Ireland and the UK because it is free, supported by advertising.
SDC aka Swingers Date Club – Popular in many international cities and Southeastern USA. £22.95/Month or £110/Year
Swinging Heaven – Popular in many places across England. £16.95/Month or £56.95/Year
Lifestyle Date Club – Upcoming swinger community with an Irish following. €100 annual fee.
If you are traveling, check out the swinging dating sites popular in the US.
Alternatives to Swinger Dating Sites?
There are alternatives ways to find swinging or dogging partners without using these dating sites. Not all of them will be as successful or as easy as these dating sites. Here are the more common alternatives for finding sexy play partners.
- Local Swinger Club – The big cities have great swinger clubs letting you skip the online search.
- Private Facebook Groups – These can work, but you need to know someone already inside. Plus, Facebook has a bad track record of privacy problems and exposing LS connections to your vanilla connections.
- KIK Groups – Not as good as Facebook groups, and you still need to know someone already inside.
- Plus, don’t forget our rural swinging tips if you aren’t near a big city.
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