Looking for local UK or Irish swingers? The easy solution is to join the swinger dating site that is popular for your local area. Vanilla dating sites are not going to be a good fit because swingers tend to prefer being private and discreet. To enjoy more than your fair share of %#$@ as a swinger you want to look at the dedicated swingers sites where your local lifestyle friends can be found. Connecting with local swingers will also help you uncover inside information like where are the hot house parties, or best places and times for dogging action.
How We Tested – Our testers went across the United Kingdom and Ireland to find the most popular lifestyle site for the top cities. We took into consideration free vs paid accounts, active vs dormant profiles, couples vs singles, and other factors to be as fair as possible. If two sites had similar popularity, they are joint winners. If a site wasn’t the most popular but still notable it earned a honorable mention. We strive to provide the most accurate results and welcome your help. This list was last updated October 14, 2019.
New Swinger Advice – Most swinging sites offer free registration but it is often useless. Experienced swingers tend to steer from free member profiles because they are more likely to be fakers, pic collectors and troublemakers. The safer option is to pay for a permanent aka lifetime membership. That sounds scary but it is usually much cheaper than paying monthly for a single year. To safeguard your swinger privacy & discretion, you can pay with a Visa gift card using an alias and separate email address.
Recap – Fab Swingers is by far the big winner with the exceptions of London, England & Limerick, Ireland. London is so big it has many popular options. Many swingers prefer using SDC in London because it costs money to join which keeps away the non-serious people and trouble makers that can be on Fab Swingers. We love that Fab Swingers is free but being so easy to join does create it’s own problems. As for Limerick, it has a bit of a homegrown swinger community in LDC. Swinging Heaven is an upcoming site in the UK especially England. Fab Swingers is good but as we mentioned being a free site it does have some fake profiles like men trying to steal naked pictures and people that aren’t serious and will be a no-show for swinger dates.
If you have updated information or new insights, let us know. We welcome all help and feedback to improve this list 🙂
What are the most popular swinging dating sites?
|City, Country||Most Popular UK/Ireland Swinger Site|
|Birmingham, England||Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven|
|Bristol, England||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Leeds, England||Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven|
|Liverpool, England||Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven|
|London, England||Winner: SDC, Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven|
|Manchester, England||Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven|
|Sheffield, England||Winner: Fab Swingers, Honorable Mention: Swinging Heaven|
|Norwich, England||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Cambridge, England||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Southampton, England||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Exeter, England||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Dublin, Ireland||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Galway, Ireland||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Cork, Ireland||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Limerick, Ireland||Winner: Lifestyle Date Club, Honorable Mention: Fab Swingers|
|Belfast, Northern Ireland||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Aberdeen, Scotland||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Dundee, Scotland||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Edinburgh, Scotland||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Glasgow, Scotland||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Cardiff, Wales||Winner: Fab Swingers|
|Swansea, Wales||Winner: Fab Swingers|
What does a swinger dating site cost?
The prices for the UK/Ireland swinging dating sites are…
Fab Swingers – Hugely popular across most of Ireland and the UK because its free, supported by advertising.
SDC aka Swingers Date Club – Popular in many international cities and Southeastern USA. £22.95/Month or £110/Year
Swinging Heaven – Popular in many places across England. £16.95/Month or £56.95/Year
Lifestyle Date Club – Upcoming swinger community with an Irish following. €100 annual fee.
If you are travelling, check out the swinging dating sites popular in the US.
Alternatives to Swinger Dating Sites?
There are alternatives ways to find swinging or dogging partners without using these dating sites. Not all of them will be as successful or as easy as these dating sites. Here are the more common alternatives for finding sexy play partners.
- Local Swinger Club – The big cities have great swinger clubs letting you skip the online search.
- Private Facebook Groups – These are good but to get invited you need to know someone already inside.
- KIK Groups – Not as good as Facebook groups and you still need to know someone already inside.
- Plus don’t forget our rural swinging tips if you aren’t near a big city.
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