Most Popular Swinging Sites by City

Are you trying to find local swingers? The answer is simple – sign up for the swinging dating site popular in your local area. Swingers tend to work hard at being discreet and protecting their privacy, so vanilla sites & events tend to be a waste of time. If you want to connect with local swingers, you want to use the swinger site that the locals use.

How We Tested – Our testers have collected data from across America to find each city’s most popular lifestyle site. We considered free vs. paid accounts, active vs. dormant, couples vs. singles, and several other data factors to be as fair and accurate as possible. If two sites had similar popularity, they are joint winners. If a site wasn’t the most popular but still very notable, it earned an honorable mention. Because swingers love variety, we also added alternative options. The alternatives are not the most popular but are growing and can be a backup option if you aren’t happy with the popular site.

This list is ACTIVELY UPDATING.  This is because C4P was a big swinger site & unexpectedly closed down. We are monitoring the situation and frequently updating the chart. Last updated on December 30, 2024.

New Swinger Advice – Most swinging sites offer free registration, but it is often useless. Why? Many swingers will block the free accounts because they tend to be fake accounts trying to steal private pictures or cause other trouble. Even if veteran swingers didn’t filter out free accounts, many sites don’t allow free accounts to send or read messages.  Make sure to use the website versions instead of the app versions.  The app stores have family-friendly rules, making swinger companies censor the content in their apps.  The websites will give you full access to all content.

We have personally used all of these sites and vouch for them to be legitimate. The smartest option is to pay for a permanent aka lifetime membership when it is available. That sounds scary, but it is cheaper than paying monthly for a single year. If you are unsure, choose monthly and remember to switch over to a lifetime account as soon as you are sure. To safeguard your swinger privacy & discretion, you can pay with a Visa gift card using an alias and a separate email address.

International? Check out our list for Canadian swinger dating sites, as well as the swinger sites for UK & Ireland and even Australia/New Zealand LS rankings.

What are the most popular swinging dating sites?

* Some cities are quickly changing due to C4P unexpectedly closing down. We added an asterisk to designate cities that are in flux. We will continue to monitor the situation and update the chart.

What does a swinging dating site cost?

Good swinger sites cost money because proper website security isn’t cheap.  As much as we hate paywalls, they work wonders at keeping out the trolling fakes and troublemakers that plague the internet.

The prices for the big US swinging dating sites are…
AFF aka Adult Friend Finder – More hookup than swinger-centric site. $40/monthly or $240/annually.
Kasidie – Popular in many Western cities. Sliding scale prices – $30 to $130 annual fee.
SDC aka Swingers Date Club – Popular in Southeastern cities. $250 lifetime fee.
SLS aka SwingLifeStyle – Popular in northern cities. $25/monthly or $199 unlimited fee.
Swingular – Popular in Utah. $99 lifetime fee.
SZC aka Swinger Zone Central – Popular in the Midwest. $60 lifetime fee.

There are over 30 swinging dating sites in the US. Most of them aren’t popular enough, with almost no members, and others are outright scams. Protect yourself and stick with the popular sites that are legitimate and have actual members.  Many of the abandoned swinger sites haven’t maintained their security, so do not use your vanilla information on those swinger sites.  Keep your guard up & stay safe.  Here is an article to help you safeguard your swinger privacy.

Are you traveling north to Canada? Check out our list of popular Canadian swinging sites.

Happy Swinging!!!

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