Trying to find local swingers? The answer is simple – sign up for the swinging dating site that is popular for your local area. Swingers tend to work hard at being discreet and protecting their privacy so vanilla sites & events tend to be a waste of time. If you want to connect with local swingers, you want to use the swinger site that they use.
How We Tested – Our testers have collected data from all across America to find the most popular lifestyle site for each city. We took into consideration free vs paid accounts, active vs dormant, couples vs singles, and several other data factors to be as fair and accurate as possible. If two sites had similar popularity, they are joint winners. If a site wasn’t the most popular but still very notable it earned a honorable mention. We strive to provide the most accurate results and welcome your help. If you want to help keep the results accurate, contact us. This list was last updated June 8, 2020.
New Swinger Advice – Most swinging sites offer free registration but it is often useless. Experienced swingers tend to avoid free members because they are much more likely to be fake accounts trying to steal private pictures. Plus if a swinger can’t afford a one-time sign-up fee then they more likely to not be serious and/or won’t have money to party together. The smart option is to pay for a permanent aka lifetime membership. That sounds scary but it is usually much cheaper than paying monthly for a single year. To safeguard your swinger privacy & discretion, you can pay with a Visa gift card using an alias and separate email address.
International? Check out our list for Canadian swinger dating sites, as well as the swinger sites for UK & Ireland and even Australia/New Zeanland LS rankings.
What are the most popular swinging dating sites?
| City, State | Most Popular Swinger Site(s) |
|---|---|
| Birmingham, Alabama | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Mobile, Alabama | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Anchorage, Alaska | Winner: AFF |
| Phoenix, Arizona | Winner: SLS, Kasidie |
| Tucson, Arizona | Winner: SLS |
| Little Rock, Arkansas | Winner: C4P |
| Anaheim, California | Winner: Kasidie, Honorable Mention: SLS |
| Bakersfield, California | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Fresno, California | Winner: SLS |
| Long Beach, California | Winner: Kasidie, Honorable Mention: LL |
| Los Angeles, California | Winner: Kasidie, Honorable Mention: LL |
| Riverside, California | Winner: Kasidie, Honorable Mention: SLS |
| Sacramento, California | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: Kasidie |
| San Diego, California | Winner: Kasidie, Honorable Mention: LL |
| San Francisco, California | Winner: Kasidie, SLS, Honorable Mention: LL |
| San Jose, California | Winner: SLS, Kasidie, Honorable Mention: LL |
| Stockton, California | Winner: SLS |
| Colorado Springs, Colorado | Winner: Kasidie |
| Denver, Colorado | Winner: Kasidie |
| Fort Collins, Colorado | Winner: Kasidie |
| Bridgeport, Connecticut | Winner: SLS |
| Hartford, Connecticut | Winner: SLS |
| New Haven, Connecticut | Winner: SLS |
| Stamford, Connecticut | Winner: SLS |
| Washington, DC | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: Kasidie |
| Dover, Delaware | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: APG |
| Jacksonville, Florida | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: SDC |
| Miami, Florida | Winner: SDC |
| Orlando, Florida | Winner: SDC |
| Tallahassee, Florida | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Tampa, Florida | Winner: SDC, Honorable Mention: SLS |
| Atlanta, Georgia | Winner: SDC, Honorable Mention: SLS |
| Augusta, Georgia | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Savannah, Georgia | Winner: SDC, SLS |
| Honolulu, Hawaii | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Boise, Idaho | Winner: SLS |
| Chicago, Illinois | Winner: SLS, Kasidie |
| Peoria, Illinois | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Evansville, Indiana | Winner: SZC, Honorable Mention: SLS |
| Fort Wayne, Indiana | Winner: SZC |
| Indianapolis, Indiana | Winner: SZC |
| Des Moines, Iowa | Winner: SwingVillage |
| Kansas City, Kansas | Winner: C4P |
| Wichita, Kansas | Winner: C4P |
| Lexington, Kentucky | Winner: SZC, Honorable Mention: SLS |
| Louisville, Kentucky | Winner: SZC |
| Baton Rouge, Louisiana | Winner: SLS |
| New Orleans, Louisiana | Winner: SLS, SDC |
| Shreveport, Louisiana | Winner: SDC, SLS |
| Portland, Maine | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Baltimore, Maryland | Winner: SLS |
| Boston, Massachusetts | Winner: SLS |
| Springfield, Massachusetts | Winner: SLS |
| Worcester, Massachusetts | Winner: SLS |
| Detroit, Michigan | Winner: SLS |
| Grand Rapids, Michigan | Winner: SLS |
| Lansing, Michigan | Winner: SLS |
| Minneapolis, Minnesota | Winner: LL, Honorable Mention: Couples Next Door, SLS |
| Jackson, Mississippi | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: Kasidie |
| Columbia, Missouri | Winner: C4P |
| Kansas City, Missouri | Winner: C4P |
| Springfield, Missouri | Winner: C4P |
| St. Louis, Missouri | Winner: C4P |
| Billings, Montana | Winner: AFF, Honorable Mention: Four O |
| Lincoln, Nebraska | Winner: SwingVillage, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Omaha, Nebraska | Winner: SwingVillage |
| Las Vegas, Nevada | Winner: Kasidie, Honorable Mention: SLS, SDC |
| Reno, Nevada | Winner: SLS |
| Manchester, New Hampshire | Winner: SLS |
| Morristown, New Jersey | Winner: SLS |
| New Brunswick, New Jersey | Winner: SLS |
| Newark, New Jersey | Winner: SLS |
| Albuquerque, New Mexico | Winner: SLS |
| Albany, New York | Winner: SLS |
| Buffalo, New York | Winner: SLS |
| New York, New York | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: SDC |
| Syracuse, New York | Winner: SLS |
| Charlotte, North Carolina | Winner: SLS |
| Fayetteville, North Carolina | Winner: SLS |
| Raleigh, North Carolina | Winner: SLS |
| Wilmington, North Carolina | Winner: SLS |
| Winston–Salem, North Carolina | Winner: SLS |
| Fargo, North Dakota | Winner: AFF – Rural Swinger Help |
| Cincinnati, Ohio | Winner: SZC |
| Cleveland, Ohio | Winner: SLS |
| Columbus, Ohio | Winner: SLS, SZC |
| Toledo, Ohio | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: SZC |
| Oklahoma City, Oklahoma | Winner: C4P, Honorable Mention: SDC |
| Tulsa, Oklahoma | Winner: C4P |
| Portland, Oregon | Winner: Kasidie |
| Harrisburg, Pennsylvania | Winner: SLS |
| Philadelphia, Pennsylvania | Winner: SLS |
| Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania | Winner: SLS |
| Providence, Rhode Island | Winner: SLS |
| Charleston, South Carolina | Winner: SLS |
| Columbia, South Carolina | Winner: SLS |
| Greenville, South Carolina | Winner: SLS |
| Sioux Falls, South Dakota | Winner: AFF – Rural Swinger Help |
| Chattanooga, Tennessee | Winner: SLS |
| Knoxville, Tennessee | Winner: SLS |
| Memphis, Tennessee | Winner: SLS |
| Nashville, Tennessee | Winner: SLS, DDN |
| Austin, Texas | Winner: SDC, Kasidie |
| Corpus Christi, Texas | Winner: SDC, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Dallas, Texas | Winner: SDC |
| El Paso, Texas | Winner: SLS |
| Houston, Texas | Winner: SDC, Quiver |
| Lubbock, Texas | Winner: SLS |
| San Antonio, Texas | Winner: SDC |
| Salt Lake City, Utah | Winner: Swingular |
| Burlington, Vermont | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Alexandria, Virginia | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: Kasidie |
| Richmond, Virginia | Winner: SLS |
| Virginia Beach, Virginia | Winner: SLS |
| Seattle, Washington | Winner: Kasidie, SLS |
| Spokane, Washington | Winner: Kasidie, Honorable Mention: PNWSwing |
| Charleston, West Virginia | Winner: SLS, Honorable Mention: AFF |
| Madison, Wisconsin | Winner: SLS |
| Milwaukee, Wisconsin | Winner: SLS |
| Cheyenne, Wyoming | Winner: AFF – Rural Swinger Help |
What does a swinging dating site cost?
The prices for the big US swinging dating sites are…
AFF aka Adult Friend Finder – More hookup than swinger centric site. $40/monthly or $240/annually.
APG aka Alt Playground – Used in the Mid Atlantic region. $140 per year.
C4P aka ClubForeplay – Popular in the Midwest. $84 per year.
CND aka Couples Next Door – Popular in Minnesota. $89/annually or $199 lifetime fee.
DDN aka Double Date Nation – New site launched in 2019, gaining traction in Tennessee.
Kasidie.com – Popular in many Western cities. Sliding scale prices – $30 to $130 annual fee.
LL aka Lifestyle Lounge – Popular in California. $190 annual fee or $499 lifetime fee.
Quiver – Popular in parts of Texas. $100 annual fee.
PNWSwing – Relatively new site in the Inner PNW area.
SDC aka Swingers Date Club – Popular in Southeastern cities. $250 lifetime fee.
SLS aka SwingLifeStyle – Popular in Northern cities. $69/annually or $150 lifetime fee.
Swingular – Popular in Utah. $99 lifetime fee.
SZC aka Swinger Zone Central – Popular in the Midwest. $60 lifetime fee.
Four O – Private social network of swingers in Montana, contact for more information.
There are over 30 swinging dating sites in the US. Most of them aren’t popular enough and others are outright scams. You should stick with these popular sites that are legitimate and have enough real members.
Travelling north to Canada? Check out our list of popular Canadian swinging sites.
Happy Swinging!!!
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