Sex toys are one of humanity’s best inventions. That might seem like an exaggerated statement, but the invention of sex toys has really opened up and burst the boundaries of what pleasurable sex used to mean. Sex toys can now be used alone for some sexy self-care, with a partner to help you give them maximum levels of pleasure. Toys can even be used in threesomes to enhance an already intense erotic experience beyond your wildest imaginations.
Swingers do enjoy threesomes. If you are looking for a way to step up your threesome experience, this is for you. Maybe this is even your first threesome as a swinging couple, and you want to make sure that everyone reaches peak levels of pleasure. Well, that’s what sex toys are made to do.
Threesomes are a great way to try out new things during sex and experiment with your desires. The addition of sex toys to any sexual encounter is always bound to ramp up the intensity, and threesomes are no exception. With all that said, here are ten sex toys to take your MFF threesome game to the next level of pleasure.
Lubricant
While lube isn’t exactly a sex toy, it is a vital sex tool to use, especially when exploring outside of traditional sex. Many people think that lube is only needed for anal sex, but this is far from the truth. When using sex toys, lube is a key tool, whether you have anal or vaginal sex. Lube helps ease the friction between the toy and your skin, ensuring that you receive more pleasure from your play and eradicating any discomfort.
You can take your pick of water, silicone, or oil-based lubricants, which all have their pros and cons. What matters most is that you ensure the safety and comfort of yourself and your partners. Make sure whatever lube you choose will work well with your condoms as some lubes can damage certain condoms.
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Bed Restraints
As the swinging lifestyle often intersects with kink and BDSM, it isn’t a stretch to think that some restraints would come in handy during your encounter. Whether you want to engage in light bondage or extreme restraint, these can keep things fun and exciting in bed.
Tie up one partner in bed, whether it’s your romantic partner or your unicorn for the night, and let the other two tease and toy with them to their hearts’ content. Or you can skip the restraints and use a blindfold depending on everyone’s comfort level.
When using restraints and other toys that cross into the realm of BDSM, it is vital to ensure that there is good communication between partners. Read up on safety so you pick the right restraints & no one is accidentally hurt (physically or mentally).
Rabbit Vibrators
Rabbit vibrators, named so because of their two-pronged shape, offer the best of both worlds, with air pressured clitoral stimulation on one end and intense internal vibration on the other. This attack on the senses is sure to drive any woman mad.
During a threesome, one party may feel left out or not fully taken care of. With this toy, you can rest assured that everyone is having the time of their lives, even if they don’t have any hands on them. While attention cannot always be shared equally between all partners, you can ensure that everyone has a great time collectively.
Finger Vibrators
Finger vibrators are game-changers, turning even the most simple touches into an erotic experience. A finger vibrator is designed to fit seamlessly onto your finger, keeping your natural finger play comfortable but with that extra touch of magic.
This toy is excellent for both male and female partners, with powerful vibrations that will hit all the right spots. Finger vibrators can also be used on any part of the body as everyone has different erogenous zones. These toys are great for making sure that every touch counts.
Simply imagine a four-handed massage with some finger vibrators mixed in. Rubbing all over the body. Teasing and every so slowly moving on the naughty bits. Mmm-hmmm!
Vibrating Saddles
While the size of this toy may intimidate you at first, it’s best to give it a try, as it could literally rock your world. Vibrating saddles are precisely what they sound like: full-on saddles that vibrate beneath you. Many saddles come with add-on dildos for a more intense experience. Some saddles even come with full thrusting action, allowing the person riding them to feel the full effects of an intense round of sex. This way, both women in the threesome can experience penetration simultaneously. They are also great for having a pseudo threesome experience without swinging.
Dildos
Dildos are fairly common sex toys, but that doesn’t make them boring especially with the new crazy shapes & styles.
The presence of a dildo in a two-women, one-man threesome can balance the ratio of penises to vaginas, allowing both vaginas to get penetrated simultaneously. Dildos can also come in handy when the man in the mix needs a breather or needs to hold out longer to draw out the experience. Dildos are classic, fun, and can be very versatile.
Get a vibrating dildo to make the experience even more fun. Also, think about the double-headed dildos for double the fun during girl-on-girl play! This toy resembles a regular dildo, except that both ends can be used for penetration. This is commonly used by two women, giving the man an excellent view as the ladies use this sex toy to get themselves off. A double-ended dildo can be used by two together for scissoring, taking the already sexy act to another level. These could also be intimidating to some people, but a double-ended dildo can spice up a threesome.
Strap on Dildos
These sex toys are fun, especially for playing around with gender roles in the bedroom. One of the women could use a strap-on on the other woman while getting some love from the man. The possibilities and positions that can be introduced with a strap-on are endless. Also, never cross out the possibility of using this toy on the man in the threesome.
Threesomes are all about being open-minded and exploring each participant’s pleasure to the full extent. You’d be surprised at how much fun a strap-on could add to your threesome dynamic or while staying at home.
Bullet Vibrator
This is another classic sex toy that shouldn’t be discounted due to how common it is. Bullet vibrators are classics for a reason, after all. They are convenient, easy to use, and highly stimulating. Bullet vibrators are small and compact, focusing on one spot at a time. They can be used to tease one partner, keep someone occupied, or keep someone involved while the other two are getting it on. It is always a great add-on to strap-on dildos.
Cock Rings
Cock rings are fun toys that help prolong sexual experiences. This toy is a small ring that goes at the base of the penis and restricts blood flow. This makes the penis harder, thicker, and more sensitive to stimulation.
It also makes the man able to last much longer in bed, and the resulting orgasm after taking the ring off is quite intense. Like with all the other toys listed here, the possibilities with this toy are endless. The man can wear it and take turns having sex with both women, or it can be used to edge him, holding off his orgasm for as long as possible. Have fun and play around with it!
Wrapping Up
These are just a few toys that can be used in a threesome to take your experience to the next level. All of the toys listed come in different shapes and sizes that can cater to your every sexual want and need, even those that you didn’t know you had. When it comes to swinging and threesomes, the most important thing is to make sure that every person involved feels safe and pleased. With these toys, both of those are guaranteed. All that’s left to do now is find your unicorn and get ready to have all of your minds blown.