Shared by inigma222312
The party was in Chicagoland. So first, the hosts were very responsive. We actually had tickets for the December party, but were able to transfer to Jan with no problem. Also communication regarding the party was great! There are videos of the house and how to do speed dating.
Directions/check in was easy and smooth! When you arrive they check ids, you pick out your “preference” bracelet – red-full swap, blue-soft swap, and yellow-checking it out. You also get your speed dating location.
Since we were new we also took a tour. House is big, but manageable. There are 3 floors. Upstairs are the majority of play rooms..i think 6 rooms. The main level you can have phones and take pictures in front of the ycp backdrop…also pizza and water is in the kitchen. There are also 2-3 playrooms on this level. This is also where lockers are held (bring a lock to store your stuff). Advice you may want to mark your coat with something bright…at the end of the night there were tons of black coats. 😂 The basement has a bar, dance floor, big heated indoor pool and hot tub. In the summer the pool area is not covered.
After the tour we got drinks and chatted with some couples and took pictures before speed dating started. Speed dating was really fun and an easy way to chat with a lot of couples quickly. There were around 70-75 couples…maybe more. In speed dating we had to stay put and people rotated to us. I think we met like 14 couples this way. It was fun…it’s not for everyone, but everyone was very friendly and we had no problem having things to talk about.
The crowd was mainly in their 30s I would guess. It was an attractive and very friendly crowd. Also people were talkative! We felt welcomed. Everyone seemed happy to be there. This was a glow party and almost all matched the theme.
After speed dating, we got more drinks and continued chatting with the same couple as before. Then we went and danced. The music was fun…typical dancing music, but we liked all the songs. When “It’s getting Hot in Here” we started to take off all our clothes…as did others. Semi nude dancing is a very good time. We love dancing, but it was time to play.
We went to the main floor and grabbed our fuck bag and found the other couple and asked them if they wanted to join us and they did. We chose the first room at the top of the stairs and there is a king bed behind the door. We fucked our own spouses on the same bed…very low pressure and tons of fun. 2 other couples came in the room and said oops, but we were like no…come on in and they took the other bed. They were a blast to watch and hear! It was just such a hot atmosphere. It was also a bit temperature hot though, so after playing for about an hour (?), we decided to head to the pool. At this point we are all just pretty much naked.
We went down to the heated pool and played a bit in there. Attempted a poolside bj, but it was cold!!! At this point it was like 2 and the party would end soon…so we left. I didn’t get dressed just left all naked with my coat on (after I found it). 😂
The best takeaway….Everybody was soooooo nice, fun, respectful. I didn’t feel nervous walking around by myself naked. It was really comfortable. A normal club my ass would have been grabbed multiple times…but here not one unwanted touch or grab…
And…there is no pressure. If you just want a sexy party atmosphere, then you can have that. If you just want to have sex in public with your SO, you can do that….if you want to have sex with others, you can probably find someone to do that with. It honestly reminded me of a typical house party, but more nudity and sex. You can make the experience work for you and your SO.
We can’t wait to return…it was definitely a highlight so far in our LS experiences.
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