How would you describe yourselves?
In our early 40’s a married couple with kids together for 20 years living in Southeast USA, swinging for 5 years give or take.
How did you discover the swinging lifestyle?
Googling “hot sexual activities to do with my spouse this weekend near me”
What hesitations did you have about joining the lifestyle? How did you handle your concerns?
We thought we’d encounter ‘crazy people’ and a bunch of ‘weirdos’ whatever that means lol so we said ok we won’t socialize with anyone. It will be ‘strictly business’, but we were sooo off…. lifestylers are the most open genuine bunch you will ever encounter and we are all just regular people; so now we are very social in our lifestyle explorations.
Describe your local swinging culture.
We are lucky to live in a city where there are tons of lifestyle options from nude beaches to several clubs, resorts and lots of parties.
Have you ever taken a break from swinging? If so, why and for how long?
No, we haven’t had a need to take a break, we do our thing at our own pace so if one week we are in the mood to swing a lot we might go out two times…. but then lay low for a month or two…. we are not on a schedule regarding swinging, we just go with our wants and desires for the moment.
What pet peeve(s) do you have about the swinging lifestyle?
Disrespect and people that think rules of common decency don’t apply.
How has swinging impacted your relationship?
It has definitely had a positive impact, our communication has opened up tenfolds, we can talk about anything it’s fantastic!
Our sex life is so hot, we have more fun than before and we feel like there isn’t anything we can’t conquer together; swinging strengthens an already strong relationship.
What has surprised you the most about swinging?
That there are so many people doing it! Lol
– Thank you H & R for sharing!
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