Guys, you’re probably confident – and you should be! You look good, have a bunch of friends, and convinced that hot lady to be with you. Because you are so freaking awesome, your lady feels comfortable enough to enter the lifestyle with you and explore some amazing sexy times together. Seriously, you are scoring some major fist bumps and high fives from the Manly Man’s Hall of Fame.
Can I pull you aside for a second to talk dude to dude? I don’t know how to say this, but you aren’t the biggest guy in the world and you better be okay with that. If you’re lucky enough to have some sexy playtime in the lifestyle, you are going to come across guys with bigger equipment than you – so don’t freak out.
Bigger equipment does not mean they are better at pleasing ladies. Many ladies avoid men with bigger equipment because it isn’t the easiest to play with. It can be harder for oral action, and might even be too painful for any sustained oral attention at all. Many ladies will also say “oh hell no” to any backdoor action for guys with big equipment. Even regular sex is a challenge because the average vagina is just 3-4 inches deep. Big equipment is not as awesome as you might think. If you have big equipment, you already know this and have learned how to use your equipment with the right angles and positions to keep everyone feeling happy and sexy.
Guys, especially younger guys who tend to have trouble understanding that size is not everything, listen up! Your hot lady loves you and is going home with you. You like playing with big boobs and small boobs alike, and at the end of the night you happily go home to play with your lady’s amazing boobs. It is the same for your lady. She can play with big equipment and small equipment and will still look forward to going home to play with your special equipment because it is and will always be her favorite.
Swinging enables us to enjoy a variety of new sexy experiences. Relax and be happy that you and your lady can dabble with so many new and exciting play opportunities before going home together. You are both likely to learn new ways to push those sexy buttons from your different-sized play partners, which can lead to bigger explosions in your own bedroom.
If you think you have very small equipment, you’re probably underestimating yourself. You probably have more than enough for a super-hot, sexy swinger time. Remember that the average vagina is just 3-4 inches deep. Some of the hottest moments don’t even involve a guy’s equipment. Most women love, love, love receiving oral attention. Some women will have a more intense climax from talented tongue action than any penetration. It’s fun watching a woman try to walk on jelly legs after a long session of moaning and quivering from a super talented tongue.
With more experience in the lifestyle, you will realize that there is a wide range of people. This includes bald guys and hairy guys, tall guys and short guys, skinny guys and chubby guys. Don’t freak out over these differences. Most people join the lifestyle because they want to enjoy the sexy variety.
Be confident in who you are and enjoy every sexy moment!