Hello, fellow LS content creators!
Many thanks to the folks who have given us feedback on the website. It is greatly appreciated, and we want to return the favor because we truly believe this community is better when we work together and help each other out. In the spirit of cooperation, we data-mined Swingers Help for content ideas that may inspire future podcast episodes.
(Shoutout to Cate for planting the seed…)
These are popular themes that we are regularly asked about. Some of them we paraphrased and grouped together. Feel free to ask us to clarify anything. We didn’t include the most basic ones as they have been covered ad nauseum. We’ll probably update this list every 3 months or so and message you when we do.
This is a work in progress. Please do not share this page with anyone else just yet – we are deliberately not sharing broadly. To be completely honest, we aren’t interested in helping folks who have stolen content or threatened legal action against us or our friends. Oops, there we go slipping into the drama we’d much rather check at the door! Back to positive thinking & building happy cummunity 🙂
Any thoughts on how we can improve or help in another way, please let us know.
Sex/Dating/Wellness
- basic vaginal health (peeing after sex, BV, ph issues, misleading douche commercials, etc)
- approaching someone who might not be LS
- best undergarments for swinging (confidence boost, value, functionality, options for men & women, etc)
- best virtual dates (covid made it popular, now becoming a more common screening tool for couples)
- Bukkake (what it is, tips to make it happen, sti risk)
- double penetration – options & tips
- tips for talking dirty without being obscene
- how to try separate room play
- men that are secretly bicurious but afraid to tell even their own partner
- overcoming failure to launch while swinging (ways to get hard & alternative ways to enjoy swinging without erection)
- hall passes
- female orgasm issues
- filming swinging encounters (worries against it & people looking to make it happen)
- help for plus-sized couples (feeling comfortable, making connections
Protecting Marriage/Primary Relationship
- aftercare for hotwifing/cuckold/stag vixen/solo dates
- being surprised with jealousy as veteran swingers
- when home sex interest plummets but swinging interest goes up
- fear of losing wife to larger penis & other myths that scare curious newbies
- deciding on frequency of playdates (comparing to others, FOMO, mismatch in own relationship, fluctuation over time)
- present/special treat ideas for swinger spouse
- when your partner wants non-monogamy and you don’t
LS Relationships
- gaining entry into established friend circles/asking older swinger couples to let you join
- building a swinger support network (same gender, age, stage of LS)
- declining play politely
- getting over past play partners
- pros & cons of swinging with friends vs strangers
- resolving conflicts with other swinger couples (new connections, close connections, casual fellow club goers)
Parenting
- balancing being swingers and parents
- options for childcare while swinging
Money
- starting a lifestyle business (most interest in clubs & dating sites). Some think podcasting is easy money
- swinging on a budget (how to maximize fun with minimum spending)