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Lifestyle Blogs For Your Reading Pleasure

Are you a curious newbie interested in learning about the swinging lifestyle?  Maybe you are a long time veteran who wants to stay better connected with the community? Regardless of your experience level, we have plenty of interesting resources for you.

We’ve put together this list of the top swinger blogs for your reading pleasure. They cover a wide range of swinging lifestyle topics and situations to help inform and entertain. 

While we might not agree with every opinion or perspective on these different lifestyle blogs, we are happy to share these options so you can choose for yourself.  We’re confident this list has something for all the different types of sexy blog readers.

    1. Swingers Help – Written by Dr. Georgia who has a Ph.D. in psychology and co-authored the 310-page Swingers’ Little Helper book.  Why did we rank ourselves?  Well, you might not realize this blog has over 400 articles, many real-life Swing & Tell stories, free ebooks,  videos, and much more.  We like to think that our site is a good gateway to discover other swinger blogs & podcasts.  Our shortcoming is that our site focuses more on information and less on the hot & naughty erotic details.

    2. Open Love 101 – Written by Jackie & John Melfi, the owners of the Colette Lifestyle Clubs.  Jackie also authored the 82-page ebook Swingers’ Lifestyle: The Questions You Are Afraid to Ask.  This blog is a mashup of their vlog, podcast & blog posts that combines for about 330 entries.  The potential downside is most of the content is video or podcast so if you are looking to read blog posts & articles, it won’t be the best match.

    3. Swinging Downunder –  Written by a cheeky Aussie couple living in Singapore who spend much of their time podcasting and traveling to all places swinger related.  Cate & Darrell have about 40+ blog posts including guest posts to provide a variety of opinions.  The site also has their 100+ podcast episodes. This is a newer blog so they don’t have a large archive but the content is all fresh.

    4. WeGottaThing – Written by Mr. & Mrs. Jones a professional couple that retired after being outed as swingers and now focuses on their lifestyle business.  They have about 60 blog posts including guest posts, as well as 75+ podcast episodes, & a collection of fun cocktail recipes.  They also sell an online lifestyle course and host trips to Desire Resorts.

    5. Beyond Our Bedroom – Written by Mr. & Mrs. Swanilla, a couple married for over 20 years.  This is a small & intimate blog that chronicles their personal lifestyle journey.  They have about 50+ blog posts that talk about their travels to Naughty in Nawlins, hotel takeovers, and other swinger antics.  Not the best blog for how-to advice but great for vicariously following a couple’s journey.

    6. Monogamish Marriage – Written by a married, professional Canadian couple.  This blog is not limited to the swinging lifestyle.  Their 60+ blog posts cover all different lifestyle kinks & aspects of non-monogamy using a he said/she said dual authorship style for each blog post.  Light on erotica but deep on insight and perspectives.

    7. Our Secret Life – Written by Mrs. L, a middle-aged married British swinger who shares her personal journey through the swinging lifestyle.  It is a new blog with only about 15 posts but provides a good personal story of how one UK couple discovered the next chapter in the sexual journey for their relationship.

    8. Double Date Nation Blog – Written by Andi, the married lady who co-created the Double Date Nation swinger dating site.   The blog focuses on sex-positive lifestyle topics.  They have about 30 blog posts published including blog posts on the different swinger travel options.

    9. Swinging Through The Ages – Written by Donna & Alex, a mature swinger couple.  Using their 30 years of marriage and plenty of swinging experiences they focus on helping older & more mature couples that are thinking about the swinging lifestyle. This blog is relatively new and has 5+ blog posts sharing helpful swinger tips and experiences.

    10. Red Couch – Written by Lynn and Sev, a married swinging couple.   The Red Couch symbolizes the fun and adventure married couples should have with their sex life.  They share their personal opinions on the swinging lifestyle as well as product and lifestyle event reviews.  They have about 40 blog posts published including some guest interviews and paid sponsored posts.

    11. Sexy Lifestyle with Carol & David – Mostly a collection of guest bloggers covering different swinger topics. There are about 100 blog posts that discuss sexual health, play styles, relationship advice, and product reviews.  The blog also has the 100+ episodes of Carol & David’s podcast and many other resources.

    12. SDC Blog – This swinger dating site is popular in parts of the US and Europe.  It has a blog that covers swinging, fetishes, polyamory, & sexual health with over 400 blog & vlog posts created by guest posters.  The articles can be good but they can also be a bit promotional.

    13. Swing Lifestyle Blog – Another swinger dating site with a blog.  This one covers swinging, BDSM, hotwifing, cuckolding, and much more.  This is more of an archived blog and currently only posts about one new blog post each month.  The articles tend to be on the shorter side and several years old.  If you are looking for the most current insights, you might want to check elsewhere.

    14. Breaking Away from Monogamy – Written by K-Ghislaine.  This 35ish-year-old blogging lady has written more than 400 blog posts.  She started blogging a few years ago after her first open relationship ended.  This is not a dedicated swinger blog.  It covers a wide range of relationship topics including cheating, polyamory, open relationships, her journey, as well as the swinging lifestyle.

    Looking for more swing lifestyle resources?  Check out our list of 65+ swinger podcasts or the local popularity rankings for swinger dating sites.

Published: August 24, 2020
Last Updated: September 17, 2020

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