Ladies, you are good at dressing for weddings, or your office, or a casual lunch out with friends, but you may lack ideas on how to dress for a swinger’s party. A swinger party is very different from the vanilla events in your life. You have much more freedom to enjoy your sensual & sexual side. You will probably need to update your vanilla wardrobe to properly reflect your inner sexy style. Many ladies start building a separate wardrobe for the lifestyle when they enter the swinger lifestyle. We all want to make the sexiest first impression when we show up at a swinger party.
It is very common for newer ladies to the lifestyle to feel nervous and insecure. Honey, you are beautiful & sexy so be proud of yourself! We all have blemishes and things we wish we could change on our bodies. That is called being a human, so relax. To help your confidence pick outfits that boost your comfort level. Pick what you like best about your body and have your body accentuate it. Many rookie ladies are surprised by how many genuine compliments they receive at a swinger party. You are your harshest critic, so be nice to yourself and flaunt yourself in front of a very appreciative audience.
Before we go over the most common options, we ant to remind you to check with the swinger club or people that are hosting the party so that you know whether they have particular theme or dress code.
Pick a lingerie outfit that makes you feel sexy and is quick to take off and put back on. A long coat is a good way to get out of your house and into the swinger party. Many swinging ladies wear long raincoats on sunny summer days for this reason. Once inside the party, you can reveal your sexy attire. Doesn’t that sound genius? A swinger party is not always themed. If you are looking to make sexy friends, you will want to dress to impress. You can decide whether to show just some little of your skin or as much as you want. It is common at many (but not all) swinger parties for ladies to have their breasts on display. It is totally fine to cover up a little bit of your skin and leave something to imagination. Do what feels comfortable to you. You are in control and the lifestyle community is very welcoming & appreciative of confident women in all shapes and sizes.
Cosplay or Theme Costume
Swingers tend to go to many parties each year and wearing the same lingerie can get boring so it is extremely common for a swinger party to have a costume theme. You can embrace the party theme as much or as little as you like. Many swinging ladies will go crazy with their theme outfits to gain extra attention. Who does not love a sexy cosplays costume like Cleopatra or Wonder Woman or a 1920’s flapper? If you don’t like the theme, you can still go with lingerie or a sexy club dress because a beautiful & confident lady is sexy in whatever she chooses to wear. You are in control and can choose how much you want to dress up.
We want to give a big shout out to the fashion designer who made sheer blouses, in fact, all sheer outfits are awesome. If you aren’t ready to wear lingerie in front of others or want to wear a costume, then consider a sheer blouse. It keeps you covered but still hints at the sexier side of you. You will still rock the swinger party and make all heads turn towards you. A sheer blouse makes an elegant statement even if you aren’t feeling fully comfortable. It is a great option. You don’t need to wear anything else under the sheer top. But in case you needs something for support or comfort, pick a cute bra or nude lingerie. It all depends on the amount of sheer you want to be. Waist length lingerie or a beautiful looking camisole is also good for that, especially if you want it to come out as an outline.
If you choose a bra to wear under your sheer, you can go for bralettes or bandeau ones, but all in all, remember that your comfort comes first.
Are you thinking of showing up naked at the swinger party? Well, some clubs allow that, while some do not. It will depend on the venue, and the rules set by the club. In case your club allows it, do not hesitate, as long as you are comfortable. After all, it might be a great idea, especially during hot summer night season.
Public Dress Codes
On the other hand, your dress code may be limited if your swinger party is in a public place. For instance, if it is a meet and greet at a public bar, you can dress in sexy attire but will need to make sure everything is covered. A beach party could go well with some beautiful and floral prints. You can also do bikinis or a club dress.
What About Men?
In this case, matching your outfits will look stylish and loveable. It is even better when your outfits match with that of the party. When it comes to matters swinger parties, you are looking up to dressing sexily and suggestively, to attract the opposite gender. You do not want your man to scare the ladies by picking sloppy jeans, sweatshirts, and other non-sexy & unpolished options. You want to dress to impress. Try not to look shaggy or dirty. Tailored outfits will do much better.
Confidence is Key
One of the most important things you should know is that your confidence in your attire is critical. When you are done dressing, and you look sexy, remember the sexiest part of you is when your happy self-esteem shines through. Be proud of your sexy self!