Ladies, you are good at dressing for weddings, or your office, or a casual lunch out with friends, but you may lack ideas on how to dress for a swinger’s party. A swinger party is very different from the vanilla events in your life. You have much more freedom to enjoy your sensual & sexual side. You will probably need to update your vanilla wardrobe to reflect your inner sexy style properly. Many ladies start building a separate wardrobe for the lifestyle when they enter the swinger lifestyle. We all want to make the sexiest first impression when we show up at a swinger party.
It is very common for newer ladies to the lifestyle to feel nervous and insecure. Honey, you are beautiful & sexy, so be proud of yourself! We all have blemishes and things we wish we could change on our bodies. That is called being a human, so relax. To help your confidence pick outfits that boost your comfort level. Pick what you like best about your body and have your body accentuate it. Many rookie ladies are surprised by how many genuine compliments they receive at a swinger party. You are your harshest critic, so be nice to yourself and flaunt yourself in front of a very appreciative audience.
Before we go over the most common options, we want to remind you to check with the swinger club or people hosting the swinger party so that you know whether they have a particular theme or dress code.
Lingerie
Pick a lingerie outfit that makes you feel sexy and is quick to take off and put back on. A long coat is a good way to get out of your house and into the swinger party. Many swinging ladies wear long raincoats on sunny summer days for this reason. Once inside the swinger party, you can reveal your sexy attire. Doesn’t that sound genius? A swinger party is not always themed. If you are looking to make sexy friends, you will want to dress to impress. You can decide whether to show just a little of your skin or as much as you want. It is common at many (but not all) swinger parties for ladies to have their breasts on display. It is totally fine to cover up a little bit of your skin and leave something to the imagination. Do what feels comfortable to you. You are in control, and the lifestyle community is very welcoming & appreciative of confident women in all shapes and sizes. If you are a BBW & not feeling very confident, we have special sexy tips about what BBW swingers like to wear. All women can be sexy regardless of their different shapes & sizes!
Cosplay or Theme Costume
Swingers tend to go to many parties each year, and wearing the same lingerie can get boring, so it is extremely common for a swinger party to have a costume theme. You can embrace the party theme as much or as little as you like. Many swinging ladies will go crazy with their theme outfits to gain extra attention. Who does not love a sexy cosplays costume like Cleopatra or Wonder Woman or a 1920’s flapper? If you don’t like the theme, you can still go with lingerie or a sexy club dress because a beautiful & confident lady is sexy in whatever she chooses to wear. You are in control and can choose how much you want to dress up.
Sheer Blouse
We want to give a big shout-out to the fashion designer who made sheer blouses. In fact, all sheer outfits are awesome. If you aren’t ready to wear lingerie in front of others or want to wear a costume, consider a sheer blouse. It keeps you covered but still hints at the sexier side of you. You will still rock the swinger party and make all heads turn towards you. A sheer blouse makes an elegant statement even if you aren’t feeling fully comfortable. It is a great option. You don’t need to wear anything else under the sheer top. But in case you need something for support or comfort, pick a cute bra or nude lingerie. It all depends on the amount of sheer you want to be. Waist-length lingerie or a beautiful-looking camisole is also good for that, especially if you want it to come out as an outline.
If you choose a bra to wear under your sheer, you can go for bralettes or bandeau ones, but all in all, remember that your comfort comes first.
Go Naked
Are you thinking of showing up naked at the swinger party? Well, some clubs allow that, while some do not. It will depend on the venue and the rules set by the club. In case your club allows it, do not hesitate, as long as you feel comfortable. After all, it might be a great idea, especially during the hot summer night season. Being naked really can feel liberating and empowering. Just ask anyone that has bared it all visiting Desire or Hedo resort.
Public Dress Codes
On the other hand, your dress code may be limited if your swinger party is in a public place. When you are in a shared space with vanilla people, you will want to tone it down slightly. Unfortunately, some vanilla people have just never learned how to keep their cool around sexy & confident ladies. For instance, if a swinger meet and greet is at a public bar, you can dress in sexy attire but need to make sure everything is covered. Save the super sexy stuff for when you bring your new friends to somewhere private. A beach party could go well with some beautiful and floral prints. You can also do bikinis or a club dress.
What About Men?
In this case, matching your outfits will look stylish and loveable. It is even better when both of your outfits match the theme of the party. When it comes to swinger parties, you are looking to dress sexily and suggestively to attract others. You do not want your man to scare the ladies by picking sloppy jeans, sweatshirts, and other non-sexy & unpolished options. You want to dress to impress. Try not to look shaggy or dirty. Tailored outfits will do much better. Here are more tips about sexier men’s outfits.
Confidence is Key
One of the most important things you should know is that your confidence in your attire is critical. When you are done dressing and look sexy, remember the sexiest part is when your happy self-esteem shines through. Be proud of your sexy self!