Kasidie.com – This swinger dating site has a much nicer design than many other swinger websites. It tends to be much more active in California, Texas, Las Vegas, and the Western USA.
A+ Rating
Good News
Kasidie offers free & paid accounts (aka “Elite Accounts“). They have a strong community of verified & real swingers. Kasidie has a team of senior members that are used as ambassadors to grow membership. Some of these ambassadors host a ladies-only social party to help build connections and allow ladies to learn more in a pressure-free zone. The site has good features, solid search tools, and a certification process. It also uses a sliding scale for pricing. This pricing concept is a fair approach and rewards early adopters while helping Kasidie grow.
Bad News
Kasidie is not cheap. Having a better swinger website costs money. If you want a quality swinger site with good tools and real, verified swingers, you need to invest back into the system by paying money. Kasidie is still growing. It is the most popular swinger site for many US cities (hopefully yours) but not all US cities. If you like to travel, you will probably need to join an additional swinger site that is popular in that region.
Site Features
Kasidie has all the standard features of every swinger dating site, including forums, photo galleries, who viewed me section, mailbox, chatrooms, community groups, a calendar of parties & club events, etc.
What is unique to Kasidie is Girls Uncorked. These are meet-ups for ladies only that are hosted in private homes by one of the ladies. They are basically a casual wine & chat once a month for ladies to connect & support each other. It is a great opportunity for ladies curious about starting to swing & veteran ladies to talk over their latest swinger situations. To join your local Girls Uncorked, click on the “Communities” button and then search Girls Uncorked. If there is no Girls Uncorked local chapter for you, you can volunteer yourself if you want.
Bottom Line
You should join Kasidie if you are a swinger in the US. Why? If you live in a town where Kasidie is the dominant site, that is where you need to be if you want any local swinging action. If you live in a town where Kasidie is not the dominant site and has few members, then you can lock in cheap lifetime membership. In the short term, it will be helpful connecting with swingers when you travel to Las Vegas, California, Texas, etc. In the long term, Kasidie is growing membership with its low sliding scale prices. No swinger site is perfect, but this is definitely a top-tier site. We give it an A+ rating.
Free vs. Paid
Kasidie’s free version is basically useless. You can build out a profile and search other profiles but can’t do much more than that. You can’t communicate or see any profile images without upgrading to a paid account. If you want to connect with local swingers, you need to upgrade to a paid account.
Kasidie Pricing
Kasidie account charges membership on a sliding scale. In the areas where they have fewer members, they offer discounted prices. The discount decreases as more people sign up in an area. In the areas where they have many verified swingers, they charge their regular price.
1 month is $19.95
Annual is $29.95 to $129.95 (varies depending on popularity)
Lifetime is $79.95 to $99.95 (only available for a limited time & only in a few areas)
Kasidie Discounts & Promo Codes
The best deal is to sign up for a lifetime membership in an area where Kasidie is not popular and use their sliding scale to the biggest advantage. The lowest lifetime price is about the same as just 3 months of the regular recurring monthly cost. If the lifetime offer has already expired in your area, there is no discount code. The only discount is the sliding scale pricing.
How to Use Kasidie
If you are new to Kasidie, obviously upgrade to the paid account to gain full functionality and communicate with other swingers on the site. When building your profile, please be as complete as possible. The more robust a profile, the better your odds of a sexy connection. Try to upload at least 5 current photos & include your partner in them. You can put your face pictures & naughty pictures in the private gallery (aka “Backstage Pass” area). Spend time writing a real description that is longer than 2 sentences. Give people a real sense of yourself, what you like, things that interest you. The more you write, the better other people can flirt with you & mention mutual interests. Here are tips for writing better dating profiles.
When you are ready to connect with other swingers, don’t be lazy. If you see a profile you like, send a real message that is personalized & mentions something specific from their profile. Kasidie has a “Flirt” feature (aka a like button), but it rarely leads to anything. It is about as powerful as smiling across a room to someone. It’s nice but rarely leads to anything. If you want actual results, send a real message & open up your backstage pass area to them.
If you are planning on attending a swinger club or event, post it in the “Rendezvous” area. This is where members share their plans so others can more easily find & connect with them in real life.
When you meet other swingers, ask them to submit a “Certification” (aka verification/validation) for you. This helps other members know you are real & that you have met another certified member. You’ll gain a spiffy-looking certified member badge on your profile.
If someone is annoying for any reason, Kasidie does have a”Blocking” feature (look for the ninja icon). Blocked members aren’t notified that you blocked them.
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