Throwing a vanilla party can be very easy but throwing a swinger party takes a good bit more planning and special considerations. Swinger sex parties are growing in popularity as more people become aware of this lifestyle option. If you want to host a swinger sex party, make sure it is completely okay with your partner. This is a big undertaking, and you need to work together. Many people want to host a party, but the moment they see how much work it involves, they lose interest, which might cancel the party before it even starts. If you both are ready for this sexy challenge, then keep reading to learn how you can make your swinger party top-notch!
Know Your Guests
Knowing who you invite to your swinger sex party is as important as knowing those people you ought not to invite. Many people will get excited once they hear you are throwing a swinger sex party, but that doesn’t mean you should invite them. As a matter of fact, that can as well be the reason why they won’t get an invitation to your party. You might want to ask, what type of people should not be allowed in my swinger party? They include…
- Drama filled, overly emotional people
- Extra shy & scared people
- Immature people
- Trouble makers & intentional rule breakers
- Unverified & unscreened people
What Type Of Swinger Sex Party?
They are several types of swinger sex parties you can throw, mostly; they might depend on the venue, the gender of people attending the party, and so on. When organizing a swinger sex party, choose the type that is most convenient for you. You don’t have to ask for people’s opinions; you owe nobody any apologies because it’s your party! So, below are some of the types of swinger sex party you can throw:
- Soft Swap: This kind of party focuses on the kissing and touching side of swinging. Partners are switched without penetration through the vagina.
- Full Swap: This is a swinger party where all sex is allowed between consenting guests. This tends to be the most common.
- Ladies Only Party: A female-only party where swinging ladies can focus on their bisexual side.
- Group Sex / Gangbang: This type of sex party is much more inclusive. You get to try out threesomes, twosomes, and the likes. You might want to invite extra single swinger men for a gang bang to ensure enough stamina for any interested lady.
- BDSM: The kinky cousin to the swinging lifestyle with leather whips, metal chains, and other exciting sex toys. Many swingers also enjoy exploring their BDSM side. This tends to involve stricter rule-following and more experienced guests.
Finding Suitable Venue
Organizing a swinger sex party can quickly become tiring, and the hardest part is often securing a venue. You might not want to open up your private home to a big group of people, and even if you are comfortable, you might not have enough space to host a party. Where can you go? You can rent a hotel suite or connected rooms in a hotel. Be careful to keep the noise under control because you don’t want to handle angry hotel staff when you are naked. You can try Airbnb, but most of them won’t allow it when they find out what you are doing or seeing all the guest cars pull up. Whatever place you pick, make sure it has plenty of space, is clean and secured to provide privacy.
Good Drinks & Fun Games
Imagine attending a normal birthday party without fun games and drinks! Avoid that mistake and make sure there are plenty of drinks. To save money, you can ask your guests to bring their own alcohol, and you provide the ice, cups, and mixers. Some tasty alcohol tends to help jump-start any party. Once people have had a few drinks, be ready with some fun sex games. Games like the spinning of bottles, truth and dares, and stripteasers can be a lifesaver if you end up with a group of shy people. The ability to do wild sexy things is what makes the swinger party fun. The drinks and games will serve as the spark to start the swingers at your sex party.
Have Party People Ready To Play
What separates a boring swinger sex party from a crazy awesome party are the guests. Make sure you invite some extra lively party people. They will help keep the fire at your party burning bright even when you are busy dealing with other things. They can help soothe nervous newbies and make sure the other guests are partying in a happy & safe way. Make sure you have a good group of party starters and enjoy your swinger sex party!