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What is Full Swap Swinging?

In case you haven’t figured it out, full swap swinging means – full, penetrative sex. Seeing your loved one having full-on sex with another people can be emotionally intense, especially if you’ve been together a long time. Heck, it can be emotionally intense if you’ve only been together a short time! When you full swap, it’s more likely that you’ll pair off and focus only on your play partner. Full swap play sessions often begin like a soft swap but tend to ramp up quickly as couples pair off.

If you are having a full swap experience on the same bed with others, you should realize that you might get close to naked body parts that you weren’t expecting to deal with. Most likely this is an accidental foot to your face or someone reaching out and grabbing the wrong body part. Some inexperienced guys might have a hard time feeling comfortable being naked next to other men. You should think about it beforehand so you can accept it calmly in the moment.

Taking the step into full swapping can greatly increase the chance of ED issues for men because it increases the performance pressure. If this sounds likely for you, try not to worry. It isn’t a competition and no one is judging you. Full swap is about everyone having a sexy time in their own way.

There are also some bigger potential headaches that come with full swap swinging, specifically safer sex and pregnancy concerns. Make sure you talk with your partner and agree on the rules beforehand when you are calm and sober. Communicating with each other when there is no pressure is a good step towards a happy and sexy experience, no matter what type of swinging you choose to engage in. Often full swap couples insist on condoms for swinging sex but not for oral play.

You should also make sure to talk with your partner and your potential play partners about where and how the men should finish in a full swap. Don’t assume anything and always ask first.

Speaking about asking first: just because full swap is full-on sex, that does not mean there is a greenlight for anal play. Backdoor fun is not usually on the play menu. Remember to ask early and often so everyone is clear about their personal boundaries. Communicating well helps your body relax so you can savor the moment.  You can end up starring in a sex scene hotter than anything you have ever seen in any porno … seriously, this isn’t an exaggeration.

Full swap swinging can truly be amazing. It isn’t better than sex with your partner. It is a different type of sexy and shouldn’t be compared. Again, think about diamonds, emeralds, rubies and sapphires. They are different, but all are sparkling beauties to be enjoyed. Just like you have a preference amongst these beautiful gems, you will probably have a preference in your play style and it won’t compete with the sparkling sex you have privately with your loved one.

Last Updated: August 13, 2020
Written By:Dr. Georgia

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