Locating a swinger party will be very easy once you become familiar and connected with your local swinger community. Since you are reading this article, you probably haven’t built up a big network of connections with the local swinger lifestyle. Relax, we will teach you how to find and get invited to the swinger parties in your local area.
Remember, these parties are usually invite only so don’t show up without knowing all the details first. Even the public swinger clubs usually have a screening process before they let you attend. So to avoid being disappointed due your homework before attending these swinger parties. Now let’s talk about the most common ways to discover your local swinging scene…
From Swinger Friends
This is one of the most effective ways to locate a swinger party. You can make friends via the online swinger dating site that is popular in your area. Then ask them about the parties. Assuming you aren’t a creep and they like you, they will be happy to help you be added to the invite list of the swinger’s party in your neighborhood. You can make swinger friends from the online swingers, or the swingers you meet at the meet and greet events, or even the online swinger forums. You never can tell which friend will know of the different parties, so the more swinger friend connections you make, the better odds you will be introduced to a swinger party. Not every friend will know of a party and parties don’t happen every night, so increase your odds and make as many friends as possible.
Online Swinger Dating Sites
This is one of the most effective means of locating your local swinger parties. The biggest swinger dating sites like SDC, SLS, & Kasidie all have an online calendar where people post hot dates and party invites. Keep an eye open for people posting and then RSVP via the online swinger dating site. You will need a paid subscription to RSVP on most swinger dating sites. This helps to keep out trouble makers and people who aren’t serious about actually attending a swinger party. If you are serious about swinging, it is much cheaper to sign up for an annual or lifetime membership to these swinger dating sites. Thank fully you don’t need to join all of them, just the one that is popular for your local area. Here is a chart that shows which swinger site is popular for your local area.
Join a Swinger Club
To make your swinging fantasies a reality, you can find a local swinger club which will host parties several times a month. This is an easy way to meet fellow swingers in real life. Instead of visiting online swinger sites (though they are super effective) you can simply join your nearby swinging club and make connections that way. Here is a list of swinger clubs across the USA. Check out the schedule for your local club to see what they offer and when. Sometimes it is a simple meet & greet at a vanilla bar and other times it is a private club with full nudity and sexy play. The problem with starting in swinger clubs is that it can be difficult to relate with strangers you just met that night. It can also be harder to keep your identity totally anonymous at these clubs with so many people in attendance. This si why many newbies prefer to start with a swinger dating site.
Hit the internet
When all else fails you can try searching Google to make connections. You are more likely to find a needle lost in a haystack but anything is possible. We strongly recommend you stick with the swinger dedicated sites and clubs. There are too many trouble makers, fakers and picture collectors. The easier it is for a trouble maker to sign up, the more they register which is why you probably want to avoid any free dating website because their profiles are likely flooded with lying horny men looking to cause you trouble.