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Download Fire & Ice Swinger Card Games

We have created two free swinger card games for you to print at home!

We nicknamed them the Fire & Ice swinger card games.  One game is intended as an icebreaker by asking ridiculous & we mean extremely ridiculous questions.  Like WTF were we thinking and how drunk were we to come up with these questions?  The other game is intended to help you start the sexy fire and transition from talking/flirting to making those first awkward moves for real hot and heavy sexy action.

Try them out and let us know how it goes!

BETA VERSION – We are still perfecting these games.  So please share your feedback with us 🙂

Don’t Blame Me, This is What They Wrote AKA Swinger Icebreaker Card Game

To Download Icebreaker Game:
Click here & select save as.
Approximate File Size 100kb 

Printing Instructions

  1. Download PDF file from the link above.
  2. Grab 2 manila folders (preferably a pretty color) & cut along the seam to create 4 sheets of cardstock paper.
  3. Manually feed each sheet into your printer & print the PDF file.
  4. Cut out the cards & stash them in a zip lock bag so you don’t lose any.
  5. Make yourself a cocktail for being so crafty.

Icebreaker Playing Instructions

  • Whoever climaxed most recently goes first.
  • Each person picks a card and answers the question.
  • Then the person to their right goes next.
  • Yes, you must answer the ridiculous question.
  • Relax & get silly. Feel free to be creative with your answers.
  • Feel free to make up your own rules. Maybe give the option doing a tequila shot or stripping a piece of clothing instead of answering.
  • If you have gone through all the cards, feel free to shuffle & restart or …
  • After everyone has had enough fun, feel free to switch to our Fire Game

Wanna Fool Around? AKA Time To Play With Sexy Fire Card Game

To Download Playing With Fire Game:
Click here & select save as.
Approximate File Size 295kb 

Printing Instructions

  1. Download the PDF file from the link above.
  2. Grab 2 manila folders (preferably a pretty color) & cut along the seam to create 4 sheets of cardstock paper.
  3. Manually feed each sheet into your printer & print the PDF file.
  4. Cut out the cards & stash them in a zip lock bag so you don’t lose any.
  5. Drink a beer for properly cutting along the lines.

Playing With Fire Game Instructions

  • Get into a circle and sit boy-girl-boy-girl
  • Shuffle the cards and deal them out to everyone. Its OK if not perfectly equal number of cards.
  • Each card has a Hot & Super Hot challenge. You can decide which version works best for your group. You can start with the Hot version then reshuffle and play the Super Hot version.
  • Whoever climaxed most recently goes first.
  • When its your turn you can play any card from your hand and follow the instructions.
  • Group play cards involve everyone, otherwise the action is just the person playing the card and the next person in line or what the card says.
  • Start by taking turns going in a clockwise direction.
  • First person to play all of their cards wins and can do anything with anyone for 30 seconds.
  • Feel free to make up your own rules.
  • Remember the goal is to have sexy fun. This game is just an aid for making those awkward first moves.

If you have any questions, suggestions or issues opening the PDF files to print the card games, please use the contact form. We hope you enjoy our card game and find it helpful on your next swing through this sexy lifestyle XOXOXO