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You are here: Home / Swinging Basics / Explaining Double Penetration Swinging Options

Explaining Double Penetration Swinging Options

One of the many great things about swinging is that you have extra bodies available, so you can make certain fantasies a reality. Let’s talk about a common fantasy – double penetration. DP can refer to two insertions in the same place or two single insertions using different orifices. Both toys and living appendages can do the penetrating. The recipient can be a woman or a man. The possibilities are near endless.

Let’s sort it out and share some helpful tips to make DP the most pleasurable for all involved.

Why DP?

Why not? Swingers love variety, and DP is definitely something different than usual. Whether it is DP (usually implies separate body parts), DVP (double vaginal penetration), DAP (double anal penetration), or airtight (all body parts filled), it is going to be memorable.

The receiver can be bathed in pleasure with so much attention focused on them. The giver(s) also benefit from being part of a hot fantasy. With so many things moving at once, there are extra sensations for everyone involved. It can even be a bit overwhelming to find yourself in any part of this real-life taboo porn scene. Everywhere you look will be a hot scene.

Options for Double Penetration

Let’s run down some options to enjoy a double penetration experience.

Solo

You don’t need to be swinging or even have a partner. You can use sex toys. Many great butt plugs, vibrating anal beads, & dildos can give you the double stuffed feeling. There are even sex machines that can piston in & out of you, and they never get tired.

One-On-One

Maybe your swinger date canceled at the last minute. Maybe you aren’t ready for swinging and prefer roleplaying. You can still have DP fun with only your partner using the sex toys we already mentioned. There are also vibrating cock rings (you can put on him or around her strap-on) to feel extra sensations.

Threesomes & More

If you have extra bodies, why not use them. Take a moment to size up the situation (literally & figuratively). Different people have different body shapes & equipment sizes. Figure out which positions/combinations will work best for everyone. It is usually helpful to have heavier people on the bottom (avoids anyone feeling too squished) & to have people with larger equipment stay on the front side (more accommodating than the backside).

Double Penetration Combinations

You can probably think of the most obvious combinations (vaginal & oral, vaginal & anal, etc.). Here are some varieties that you might not have thought about…

  • Lucky Pierre – a man receiving anal sex while he has sex with someone else
  • Fingering both her front & backside
  • Pegging a man with a strap-on while he wears a dildo ball gag
  • Double vaginal sex with a dildo & a man (a form of DVP)
  • Double anal with two men – a bit advanced (a form of DAP)

Ah, so many more potential combinations, but you get the idea.

Helpful Tips for Double Penetration Swinging

  1. Experiment at home with a toy. This will help remove performance anxiety and let you go at whatever pace is comfortable for you. You can start with a small toy to make it easier to manage.
  2. Condoms aren’t designed to rub against other condoms. If two men (or toys) are wearing condoms & rubbing against each other in the same part, there will be friction, and the condom is likely to break. It can be safer if your primary partner (fluid-bonded partner) doesn’t wear a condom or to use different body parts.
  3. Don’t go from back to front. If anything or anyone plays in the backdoor, they should change condoms and/or wash before switching to the front side. Bacteria that can cause painful problems are easily carried on toys, fingers, etc. Easiest & safest to not mix playing in the front & back areas. Start in the front and switch to the back if you really want variety without a cleaning break.
  4. A woman’s body can achieve amazing things, but it also needs some TLC. If you are thinking of using oversized toys or double vaginal penetration, slowly work up to it. Use plenty of foreplay to increase blood flow and boost elasticity. The woman can use daily Kegel exercises to help keep things in a comfortable and working condition. And always, always pack lube.
  5. Sex swings or pillows can help position the body to give everyone involved easier access & the right angles to deliver the most pleasure.
  6. Negotiate the grand finish before starting. Simply because someone wants double penetration does not mean they want a bukkake experience. The more people involved, the more communication necessary. Agree on how it is going to happen. Discuss everyone’s personal rules & boundaries.
  7. Don’t be surprised if men might cross swords. You have a bunch of moving pieces in a small space. A simple slip or lost grip can lead to swords crossing. It doesn’t mean you or they are bi (though that would open up even more fun possibilities).
  8. Prepare some aftercare before you start. DP can be very intense and more draining than a regular round of bedroom fun. Having a nice comfy robe ready, along with other comforts, helps. Be prepared to pamper some sore muscles.

Double penetration can be amazing, but it requires good communication between everyone. If someone goes too fast or too hard, they can cause real pain and lasting damage. Be smart, be sensitive, and be good to one another.

Last Updated: October 21, 2022
Written By:Dr. Georgia
Tagged With: Group Play

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