Have new friends coming over? Already worried about an awkward transition from flirting to playing? We can help!
Here is our fan favorite DIY Sexy Dare Game. Follow these simple instructions to make the game at home. When your friends come over, do your hostess-with-the-mostest thing to make them comfortable and when the time is right ask if they want to play 🙂
Step 1 – Type your favorite dares* (see samples listed below) into a one page document. Make sure to leave a couple of spaces between the dares.
Step 2 – Take a manilla folder (because it is sturdier than regular paper) and slice it in half.
Step 3 – Manually feed half of the folder into your printer and print out your page.
Step 4 – Slice the folder page into roughly equal sized slivers with one sexy dare on each sliver.
Step 5 – Place the slivers in a tall glass or a hat.
Step 6 – Get in a circle (alternating boy-girl). Take turns pulling out a dare from the glass. If someone is uncomfortable with the dare, you can let them pull out another one, to help keep everyone comfortable and happy.
Step 7 – Whenever it gets too steamy to keep playing, pair off and let the real play begin! 🙂
Sample Sexy Dares
- Nuzzle the ear of the person to your right
- Kiss the person to your left on their chest
- Demonstrate your oral skills on the fingers of the person to your right
- Choose someone to take off one article of your clothing. You choose the person, they choose the clothing.
- Make out with a person of your choice. Lips only – no other body contact!
- Take an article of clothing off someone
- Make up a new dare for your partner
- Kiss the inner thighs of a new friend for a minute or until they quiver
- Give a lap dance to the person on your left for a minute or till they moan
- Give 3 spanks to the person to your left or get spanked 5 times by the person to your right
- Close your eyes & pick out your partner’s chest with just touching
- Give a 30 second handjob, removing clothes is optional
- Have a three way kiss
- Dry hump the person of your choice in your favorite position
- Do 15 seconds of your sexiest dirty talk to the person on your right
- Grope your favorite body part of the person on your right
- Close your eyes, have everyone line up in front of you. Identify your partner’s rear using just your hands.
*Try to include a range of dares – mix up the bold moves with some more conservative ones to be respectful of your guests’ comfort zones. One of our readers suggested a great color-coding hack: create two (or more!) lists. The manilla folder list should be introductory type dares like “Give the person to your right a one minute shoulder rub.” Save the truly daring for your other list and print these on a colored folder (we like red). Having different colors gives you some flexibility to adapt the heat level to suit you and your guests. You can start out with the light stuff for a couple of rounds and add in the bolder ones once everyone is comfortable. Or start out with a mix – let everyone take a random slip or assign colors in any way you choose!
If you want another game, check out our sexy hot tub games! If you are too busy then check out these swinger games you can order online. Just remember that swinger games are meant to help & not hinder. If things are heating up fast enough on their own, skip the games. You don’t want anyone frustrated by a game intended to start the sexy fun to accidentally blocking the sexy play.