More than a few black swingers have told us that they sometimes feel alone in a crowd of people because no one else in the room has much melanin. How is it possible to be the only black person at a party when we know there are a lot of sexy people of color in the swinging lifestyle? Not finding other interracial couples? There is actually a very vibrant community of swingers of color with resources and special opportunities for you to enjoy. If you are looking to connect with other black swingers or even just hear how others navigate the lifestyle, we’ve put together a list of resources to help. This list isn’t just for newbies or those who haven’t fully decided to take the plunge; veteran swingers will find them just as informative and entertaining. Let us know if you have other ideas to share.
(Additional resources not geared toward specific audiences can be found in our Swinging Basics section or in our Lifestyle Tips section.)
If you are tired of being called by the OBG’s (Other Black Girl/Guy’s) name and want to spend some IRL, virtual, or audio time with people who might have some similar experiences, check out this list of podcasts, online communities, clubs, and party groups. And maybe invite a couple of white friends to join for some diversity and to help them understand (kinda, sorta) how being in the minority feels, at least temporarily.
Black Swingers Podcasting
Black n Kinky
Bomber & Belle are a married, professional couple that has embraced the sexy swinger lifestyle world. They use this podcast to help other black couples who are thinking about exploring non-monogamy or have already started their swinging journey and want to listen to others’ steamy details…
Livin’ the Suite Life
Loq and Tryst are a black swinger couple hosting you in their suite – a swinger lifestyle podcast. They are a black married couple who are eager and excited to share their thoughts and perspectives on navigating the lifestyle. Make yourself comfortable and join them in the suite. Be ready to hear about sexy vacations, hot clubs and parties, and naughty toys and attire…
Swing Culture with Queen Nadine
SwingCulture podcast with Queen Nadine is an Alternative Lifestyle podcast that focuses on the exploits of swingers. Join Queen Nadine as she grants you personal access into the secret world of Alternative Lifestyles as she explores the sexually charged content with backstage access and more…
Black In The Swing Of Things
Energizer & Bunny discuss the swinging lifestyle as a married black couple, having open safe sex and/or various other sexy experiences as black swingers. Covering swinger topics for new couples & veterans exploring this non-monogamous landscape…
NK Swingers Tribe Chat
NK Swingers Tribe Chat is a long-form podcast about lifestyle, swingers, and education hosted by Pegasus and Omari of NK Swingers. The vision originally was a blend of open sexuality for black people as well as a space for sexual education. They interview authors, business owners, entertainers, youtubers, bloggers, videographers, musicians, and more.
Listen to Marie (a black woman) & Anthony (a white man) living on the East Coast, USA. They share a funny, sex-positive podcast for adults about their sexual encounters & other dirty talks. Focusing more on hotwife & threesome play in the lifestyle…
An interracial (black husband & white wife) couple navigating the swinging lifestyle and sharing their story. Tune in to hear C-Money & Brenda talk all about sexy swinging, BDSM, their hot & wild travels, and all sub-cultures within the lifestyle…
They are Tori and Soul, a passionately married same-sex female bisexual couple (one black, one white) that love each other and also enjoy playing with swinger men. Join them as they explore the sexually social and adventurous swinging lifestyle as lovers, and navigate it as parents as well. …
Renee (a black wife) & Mick (a white husband) share their stories of being a married interracial couple in the swinger lifestyle. They talk about the swinger lifestyle from the perspective of an interracial couple who’ve had an enjoyable experience thus far with many ups and downs…
The Interracial Swingers Podcast
He’s a black man & she’s a white woman discussing swinging and the lifestyle of mixed couples, mainly black men and white, Latina and Asian women but it’s really a podcast for all swingers, young and old of any race. Topics will enlighten and inform all listeners who are interested in discussing the lifestyle from a mixed couple perspective…
Veteran swinger couple and lifestyle party promoters Mr. and Mrs. Mocha (black husband & white wife) offer their explicit and often humorous take on the secret life of sex in the lifestyle and interview a wide range of sexually active people in the lifestyle community. Be immersed in the unfiltered Sexcapades, Sexplorations, and Kinks that touch on everything the lifestyle has to offer…
Black Swinger Groups & Communities
There are many online groups & communities where you can connect with other black swingers & attend events that are focused on better serving the black swinging audience. We’ve listed two of the top groups below. To find the group that is most active in your local area, join your local swinger dating site. Here is a chart to figure out which swinger dating site is popular for your local area. Each swinger dating site has a group/community section that you can search to find whatever group interests you (black swingers, interracial swingers, BBC, hotwife experiences, and so many more groups). Here’s how they describe what they’re about.
Our events are all about a NO PRESSURE/NO OBLIGATION ENVIRONMENT where couples, single women, and single men can feel free to get together and enjoy each other’s company and each other’s bodies of their own free will and at their discretion. Feel free to say anything!!! You will not shock s and we are all about hot, naughty, wild adult fun and we LOVE making fantasies cum true Whether you are brand new or have alot of experience in the lifestyle you will feel at home in our events after just a few minutes. We have a wonderful way of easing tension and putting people at ease in order that they can enjoy themselves.
595 members on the Kasidie site, 375 members on the SDC site, 6638 members on the SLS site
Splash Mocha hosts the largest Interracial and Hot Wife conventions for couples and singles in the US. Our events are always FULL hotel takeovers and consistently have over 1,000 guests. Our events are organized for professional men of color who specialize in pleasuring hotwives and single females to meet, mix and mingle at our hotel takeover.
2818 members on the Kasidie site, 1108 members on the SDC site, 713 members on the SLS site
Black Swinger Clubs & Parties
Swinger clubs are open to all adults. Well, at least to everyone willing to pay the cover charge. The audiences in a swinger club tend to reflect the local scene. If you are in Utah, don’t expect to see a big crowd of non-white people. If you are in Texas, you can expect to bump into more Latinos at the swinger clubs. If you are in Atlanta, Philly, or NYC you can expect to bump into many more swingers of color because of the diverse population living in the local neighborhoods.
If you don’t live near a big city with a diverse population, you still have options. There are often swinger parties (in private homes or hotel rooms) arranged by non-white swingers to connect with each other. These swinger parties are listed on the calendar of events of your local swinger dating site.