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What People Are In The Lifestyle?

Swingers are everyday people like you. They live in your town. You walk past them every day. The only thing that makes a swinger a swinger is a desire to have consensual, sexy fun with other sexy people! Swingers are part of the “lifestyle”. The lifestyle is a generic term that includes many … [Read more...] about What People Are In The Lifestyle?

Last Updated: February 21, 2022
Written By:Dr. Georgia

Why Swinging Doesn’t Fix Cheaters

Thankfully most of you have not had to deal with cheating.  Regardless of whether you have been touched by infidelity or want to safeguard your relationship, we will discuss why the swinging lifestyle is usually a bad idea for relationships touched by infidelity.  There are better ways to address … [Read more...] about Why Swinging Doesn’t Fix Cheaters

Last Updated: March 9, 2021
Written By:Dr. Georgia

Appeal of Swinging Lifestyle Explained

Many people don't understand the swinging lifestyle because it isn't usually explained.  Hollywood likes to have fun with it and incorrectly portray it so it will fit into their fantasy scripts.  This is one reason why some people incorrectly assume swingers are just sex fiends without any morals.  … [Read more...] about Appeal of Swinging Lifestyle Explained

Last Updated: October 29, 2020
Written By:Dr. Georgia

What to Wear for Swinging

You probably know how to dress for the office, for a wedding, for a vanilla night out, or a casual lunch with vanilla friends. But you probably don’t know how to dress for a swinger event. Hint: when deciding what to wear for swinging it is definitely not like any of those vanilla outfits! Your … [Read more...] about What to Wear for Swinging

Last Updated: August 19, 2024
Written By:Dr. Georgia
Tagged With: Clothes

Deciding Personal Swinging Rules

Each couple in the lifestyle makes different rules to protect their relationship.  These rules will often evolve to better match what works for their relationship. Some swingers may not like your rules, or you might not like their rules. That is ok. We all respect each other and know that our own … [Read more...] about Deciding Personal Swinging Rules

Last Updated: July 25, 2022
Written By:Dr. Georgia
Tagged With: Deciding, Rules

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Welcome to Swingers Help! We’re Dr. Georgia & Will Fuchs, a married couple who have been enjoying our swinging time through the consensual non-monogamy community. Our experience hasn’t been perfect or drama-free but we don’t regret at all making the decision to start swinging. To share our swinging enjoyment, we authored the top ranked Swingers’ Little Helper book and provide free videos, articles, games, & relationship exercises on this site.  Join us as we share our insights on the swinging lifestyle.

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