Many people don't understand the swinging lifestyle because it isn't usually explained. Hollywood likes to have fun with it and incorrectly portray it so it will fit into their fantasy scripts. This is one reason why some people incorrectly assume swingers are just sex fiends without any morals. … [Read more...] about Appeal of Swinging Lifestyle Explained
Swinging Basics
What to Wear for Swinging
You probably know how to dress for the office, for a wedding, for a vanilla night out, or a casual lunch with vanilla friends. But you probably don’t know how to dress for a swinger event. Hint: when deciding what to wear for swinging it is definitely not like any of those vanilla outfits! Your … [Read more...] about What to Wear for Swinging
Deciding Personal Swinging Rules
Each couple in the lifestyle makes different rules to protect their relationship. These rules will often evolve to better match what works for their relationship. Some swingers may not like your rules, or you might not like their rules. That is ok. We all respect each other and know that our own … [Read more...] about Deciding Personal Swinging Rules
Rules of the Swinger Lifestyle
As with anything in life, knowing the rules will help you succeed as a swinger in this sexy lifestyle. Rules provide swingers a helpful structure and a clear pathway around those troublesome landmines. Lifestyle rules make it easier on you, your relationship, and the swinger community. … [Read more...] about Rules of the Swinger Lifestyle
Convincing Your Partner to Swing
Before we cover this topic, we need to remind our dear readers that you can’t trick or coerce your partner into swinging. Too many people are in unhappy relationships and are trying to make their partner into something they aren’t. You will have about the same success rate in “convincing” your … [Read more...] about Convincing Your Partner to Swing