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What are Soft Swapping Swingers?

Soft swapping swingers like to engage in foreplay and other sexy acts with other people but reserve full penetrative sex for their partner. Soft swapping could include kissing, caressing, playing with breasts, oral sex, or anything else except for penetration below the waist. Many soft swap couples … [Read more...] about What are Soft Swapping Swingers?

Last Updated: January 29, 2021
Written By:Dr. Georgia

Voyeurism & Exhibitionism as Entry to the Lifestyle

Attending a swinger party does not mean you have an obligation to have sex with a stranger. Or to have sex, period. For some people, just being in the sexy atmosphere is a thrill. For others, the atmosphere serves as lubrication.  Many different sexual fantasies come to life at swinger parties, and … [Read more...] about Voyeurism & Exhibitionism as Entry to the Lifestyle

Last Updated: February 28, 2022
Written By:Dr. Georgia

Balancing Religion With Swinging

You might be surprised to find out that many swingers are faithful and religious people. We all have our own personal positions and opinions on religion. So how can faithful & religious people balance their sexy swinging with their religious obligations? First let’s remember that a big, … [Read more...] about Balancing Religion With Swinging

Last Updated: December 10, 2020
Written By:Dr. Georgia
Tagged With: Religion

Tips for Shy Swingers & Introverts

The swinging lifestyle is amazing even for people that are naturally shy or introverted.  This can feel a bit intimidating but take a deep breath, relax, and let us explain some helpful tips to make swinging fun even if you are shy. You will likely make many new friends in the lifestyle, so focus … [Read more...] about Tips for Shy Swingers & Introverts

Last Updated: May 30, 2023
Written By:Dr. Georgia
Tagged With: Emotions

How to Find Single Females aka Unicorns

Single females in the swinging lifestyle are often referred to as Unicorns because they can be just as challenging & special to find. Many swingers relish the idea of a sexy threesome with a hot lady but don't like the frustration it can sometimes be to find one.  So how can you find your very … [Read more...] about How to Find Single Females aka Unicorns

Last Updated: October 21, 2022
Written By:Dr. Georgia
Tagged With: Single Women

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Welcome to Swingers Help! We’re Dr. Georgia & Will Fuchs, a married couple who have been enjoying our swinging time through the consensual non-monogamy community. Our experience hasn’t been perfect or drama-free but we don’t regret at all making the decision to start swinging. To share our swinging enjoyment, we authored the top ranked Swingers’ Little Helper book and provide free videos, articles, games, & relationship exercises on this site.  Join us as we share our insights on the swinging lifestyle.

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