Each couple in the lifestyle makes different rules to protect their relationship. These rules will often evolve to better match what works for their relationship. Some swingers may not like your rules, or you might not like their rules. That is ok. We all respect each other and know that our own … [Read more...] about Deciding Personal Swinging Rules
Swinging Basics
Rules of the Swinger Lifestyle
As with anything in life, knowing the rules will help you succeed as a swinger in this sexy lifestyle. Rules provide swingers a helpful structure and a clear pathway around those troublesome landmines. Lifestyle rules make it easier on you, your relationship, and the swinger community. … [Read more...] about Rules of the Swinger Lifestyle
Convincing Your Partner to Swing
Before we cover this topic, we need to remind our dear readers that you can’t trick or coerce your partner into swinging. Too many people are in unhappy relationships and are trying to make their partner into something they aren’t. You will have about the same success rate in “convincing” your … [Read more...] about Convincing Your Partner to Swing
Free Swingers’ Little Helper
It can be daunting for new people looking to explore the swinging lifestyle. There are so many new swinging terms and concepts. It can become one big confusing mess. Don't worry, we are here to help. Our book Swingers' Little Helper is over 300 pages of helpful information for people new to … [Read more...] about Free Swingers’ Little Helper
2022 Swingers Glossary
The lifestyle is awesome because it is a very welcoming and open place for many different people. Here are some terms you might encounter and their usual definitions. Please remember that everyone has different experiences so some people might have slightly different interpretations of terms. You … [Read more...] about 2022 Swingers Glossary