Even the most open-minded of us will sometimes want to say no to new adventures that come our way. Maybe it’s a matter of not feeling safe with the person. Maybe it’s because of previous things you have heard about them before. Or maybe it’s because you simply don’t find the person doing the asking … [Read more...] about Saying No In The Swinging Lifestyle
Swinging Basics
Ways to Start Conversations In Swinger Clubs
You’ve been to the website. You’ve checked out the dress code, got an idea of the layout, and maybe even looked at the drinks and snacks menu. You are all ready to go to the local swinger club. Apart from maybe one thing. How the hell do you even start a conversation inside of them? How do you … [Read more...] about Ways to Start Conversations In Swinger Clubs
Tips For Politely Canceling Swinger Plans
Even well-laid plans can sometimes go awry because life gets in the way. No matter how well we have made sure that our schedules are free. No matter what preparation has been put into place. Life sometimes has a way of getting one over us. Maybe illness, childcare isn't available, or you don't … [Read more...] about Tips For Politely Canceling Swinger Plans
Spotting Scammy Swinger Profiles
The Swingers Help team has been moderating swinger forums for too many years. We are close to developing PTSD from the crazy volume of unsolicited dick pics we've had to wade through. After seeing hundreds of swinger ads every day for years, we have noticed plenty of scammy trends. We are sharing … [Read more...] about Spotting Scammy Swinger Profiles
Benefits of Trying a Swinger Gangbang
The phrase "gangbang" has a complicated reputation. Originally, the phrase was a negative one, but in the swinging lifestyle, it can have a very positive connotation. For swingers and other non-monogamous people, a gangbang is when one person is at the center of a group sex scenario being pleasured … [Read more...] about Benefits of Trying a Swinger Gangbang