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Ways to Start Conversations In Swinger Clubs

You’ve been to the website. You’ve checked out the dress code, got an idea of the layout, and maybe even looked at the drinks and snacks menu. You are all ready to go to the local swinger club. Apart from maybe one thing. How the hell do you even start a conversation inside of them? How do you … [Read more...] about Ways to Start Conversations In Swinger Clubs

Last Updated: February 13, 2023
Written By:Emma Townson
Tagged With: Conversation Starters, Flirting

Tips For Politely Canceling Swinger Plans

Even well-laid plans can sometimes go awry because life gets in the way. No matter how well we have made sure that our schedules are free. No matter what preparation has been put into place. Life sometimes has a way of getting one over us. Maybe illness, childcare isn't available, or you don't … [Read more...] about Tips For Politely Canceling Swinger Plans

Last Updated: February 13, 2023
Written By:Dr. Georgia
Tagged With: Etiquette

Spotting Scammy Swinger Profiles

The Swingers Help team has been moderating swinger forums for too many years.  We are close to developing PTSD from the crazy volume of unsolicited dick pics we've had to wade through.  After seeing hundreds of swinger ads every day for years, we have noticed plenty of scammy trends.  We are sharing … [Read more...] about Spotting Scammy Swinger Profiles

Last Updated: April 17, 2023
Written By:Dr. Georgia
Tagged With: Safety

Benefits of Trying a Swinger Gangbang

The phrase "gangbang" has a complicated reputation. Originally, the phrase was a negative one, but in the swinging lifestyle, it can have a very positive connotation. For swingers and other non-monogamous people, a gangbang is when one person is at the center of a group sex scenario being pleasured … [Read more...] about Benefits of Trying a Swinger Gangbang

Last Updated: October 21, 2022
Written By:Dr. Georgia
Tagged With: Group Play

Breaking the Ice with Swingers

One of the most exciting things about the Swinging Lifestyle is getting to know other swingers. You will have so many opportunities to meet new people in the Lifestyle. There are themed club events, designated swingers' clubs, local swingers' groups, sex parties, swingers' conventions, and more. … [Read more...] about Breaking the Ice with Swingers

Last Updated: February 13, 2023
Written By:Dr. Georgia
Tagged With: Conversation Starters

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