Swinging Basics

Many people don't understand the swinging lifestyle.  They incorrectly assume swingers are just nymphomaniacs without any morals.  People in the lifestyle actually tend to be very picky.  So why do people want to join the swinging lifestyle?  Because its a welcoming place that appreciates & … [Read more...] about Appeal of Swinging Lifestyle Explained

You probably know how to dress for the office, for a wedding, for a vanilla night out, and for a casual lunch. But you probably don’t know how to dress for a swinger event. Hint: definitely not like any of those events!   Your vanilla wardrobe will probably need some updating before you enter … [Read more...] about What to Wear for Swinging

Each couple in the lifestyle makes different rules to protect their relationship.  These rules will often evolve over time to better match what works for their relationship. Some swingers may not like your rules or you might not like their rules. That is ok. We all respect each other and know that … [Read more...] about Deciding Personal Swinging Rules

As with anything in life, knowing the rules will help you be more successful as a swinger in this sexy lifestyle. Rules provide swingers a helpful structure and a clear pathway around those troublesome landmines. Lifestyle rules make it easier on you, your relationship, and the swinger community. … [Read more...] about Rules of the Swinger Lifestyle

Before we cover this topic, we need to remind our dear readers that you can’t trick or coerce your partner into swinging. Too many people are in unhappy relationships and are trying to make their partner into something they aren’t. You will have about the same success rate in “convincing” your … [Read more...] about Convincing Your Partner to Swing