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How to Reconnect after Disconnect (in Lifestyle Settings)

A few months ago, we were preparing for a Lifestyle cruise with our couple’s counselor, discussing fears, intentions, and our greatest hopes for the trip—when we remembered that, although it hadn’t happened much recently, it was possible we could disconnect or have a conflict during our vacation. … [Read more...] about How to Reconnect after Disconnect (in Lifestyle Settings)

Last Updated: May 12, 2025
Written By:Liv Love

Why You Need Self-Empathy To Swing

Self-empathy means that you can notice and observe the part of you that experiences, or the part of you that acts, with openness and without judgment. It requires internal awareness of what’s happening in your lifeworld, and the capacity to seek to understand it. At its fullest, self-empathy is … [Read more...] about Why You Need Self-Empathy To Swing

Last Updated: April 23, 2025
Written By:Liv Love

Connecting With Trans Swingers

There are some sexy trans friends in the swinger lifestyle.  So, how can a swinger couple connect with these sexy peeps?  How can you connect with trans swingers & not come across as a creep?  Buckle up and get ready because we wrote this guide to help you have more fun times and make fewer … [Read more...] about Connecting With Trans Swingers

Last Updated: March 28, 2025
Written By:Dr. Georgia

How Do Swinger Men Last So Long?

Swinger playtime is different than your private playtime at home.  It often goes on for a long time with multiple rounds of play.  If you are new to swinging, imagine your private playtime is like a casual game of basketball in your driveway & swinger playtime is a professional NBA game that … [Read more...] about How Do Swinger Men Last So Long?

Last Updated: March 28, 2025
Written By:Dr. Georgia

Swinger Relationship Audit Checklist

Knock-knock.  It's the pineapple auditors. We are here to conduct a relationship audit on our favorite swinger couple - YOU.  Pull out your receipts and take a seat with your special someone.  We will walk through the good & not-so-great of the past to help you figure out the best way to achieve … [Read more...] about Swinger Relationship Audit Checklist

Last Updated: December 30, 2024
Written By:Dr. Georgia

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Welcome to Swingers Help! We’re Dr. Georgia & Will Fuchs, a married couple who have been enjoying our swinging time through the consensual non-monogamy community. Our experience hasn’t been perfect or drama-free but we don’t regret at all making the decision to start swinging. To share our swinging enjoyment, we authored the top ranked Swingers’ Little Helper book and provide free videos, articles, games, & relationship exercises on this site.  Join us as we share our insights on the swinging lifestyle.

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