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Not having the success you want in the swinging lifestyle?  Can't figure out why?  We have put together a long list of brutal honestly why many different couples fail in the lifestyle.  Many rookie couples think they are perfect, but none of us are.  Frankly, most of us have made multiple mistakes … [Read more...] about How Swingers Can Sabotage Their Experience

Jealousy is an emotion that most of us experience at some point in our relationships. And even though swingers generally experience less sexual jealousy and are open to allowing other people into their relationship to some extent, swingers are no strangers to jealousy either. In this article, we … [Read more...] about How Swingers Can Defuse Jealous Feelings

Swinging and other forms of consensual non-monogamy can be exciting, rewarding, and a lot of fun for both partners. People who are into swinging are generally more sexually open-minded and freer in their expressions of sexual desire. But swinging requires good teamwork, which means working together … [Read more...] about How to Discuss Difficult Swinging Topics With Your Partner

More than ever, people realize that there is no single "right" way to maintain a relationship. What works great for one couple could be disastrous for another. Friday night. A dimly lit venue. Nicely groomed couples greeting each other. People on the dancefloor in lingerie. Why are they there, … [Read more...] about Is Swinging Healthy For Your Relationship?

We are socialized each day to embrace monogamy. It’s not only knitted into the culture but also often attached to our personal identity. Societal expectations and our self-image can create an emotional conflict when exploring the swinging lifestyle. This conflict might trigger feelings of guilt and … [Read more...] about Dealing with Sinful Feelings of Swinging