Lifestyle Tips

So you've both decided to live out your fantasy of bringing another woman into your bed. Great. Now what? Agreeing to pursue a fantasy is just the first step of turning a dream into reality. Navigating a new sexual activity, regardless of what it is, with your partner can be challenging even under … [Read more...] about Navigating MFF Swinger Threesomes

Open relationships can be thrilling and filled with new surprises. We can hope all of those surprises are enjoyable, but that is rarely the case in real life.  So how do you figure out when it is time to pause, change,  or end your open relationship? That is not a simple question.  Things can … [Read more...] about When To Leave Open Relationships

Swinging can be loosely traced all the way back to the orgies of ancient Greece and Rome, and it has continued ever since as couples have enjoyed each other's erotic company. Even though this practice has been continuing for a long time,  some situations still can be unclear how to handle them … [Read more...] about Handling Clingy Swinger Couples 

More than a few black swingers have told us that they sometimes feel alone in a crowd of people because no one else in the room has much melanin. How is it possible to be the only black person at a party when we know there are a lot of sexy people of color in the swinging lifestyle? Not finding … [Read more...] about Connecting with Swingers of Color

Not having the success you want in the swinging lifestyle?  Can't figure out why?  We have put together a long list of brutal honestly why many different couples fail in the lifestyle.  Many rookie couples think they are perfect, but none of us are.  Frankly, most of us have made multiple mistakes … [Read more...] about How Swingers Can Sabotage Their Experience